I pay attention to her i terat her with respect I give har anfthing she wants. But it is never enough. I am i doing something wrong and i dont cheat. Is this the wrong kind of girl?
2007-01-31 01:40:38 · 19 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hello,
I know some people do too much... Dating does not mean put EVERYTHING you have into it... not unless it is a serious relationship. Maybe you are over trying. The right one will come along and love all that you do for her.
2007-01-31 01:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
On one hand, I think what you are doing is wonderful. Many women claim to want exactly what you have to offer, but they don't know how to accept it and handle it when presented to them. Generally speaking, I would advise you to keep being the way that you are. If the person you are with cannot appreciate you, then YES...wrong person! Dating is simply trial and error until you find that "right" one...so hold out for her. Don't waste your time, money, energy, and efforts on people unworthy of those things. However, be careful not to be TOO overbearing...if you squeeze something hard enough you will either destroy it or it will slip right out of your hands. Hopefully you have found the balance between being a nice, respectful gentleman and being pushy, clingy, and overbearing. If so...then again, keep doing what you're doing. It will pay off in the end.
2007-01-31 09:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by MissDiva1228 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's as hard to find a woman that appreciates a good man as it is to find a man to appreicate a good woman. If it is the right girl, it will be enough to show her attention and treat her with respect. Although, alot of times you are trying so hard to do the right thing that sometimes you do too much too quick and it may frighten them away. You can be good and treat them respect without coming across as desperate.
2007-01-31 09:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating, and you are respectful and "yourself" you need not give her everything she wants as well! LOL!
Sounds like you are "buying" her!
As for whether she is not the right sort for you- hmm... Depends. What do you mean "it is never enough"?
Most girls expect the lad to be nice, friendly, humorous, fun to be with, respectful and SHOULD offer these traits in return.
Not "cheating" is of course essential.
If she doesn't appreciate you and you are not happy with her then no- she is not for you.
:-)
2007-01-31 09:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are giving too much. You are smothering her. Give her room to do some giving herself. We all prefer relationships that are give and take, if someone does all the giving... it is quite boring, and you feel overwhelmed and smothered by it. Most guys like this are overly affectionate too, which drives some of us bonkers!! I am all for some Kissie--kissie, but i LOVE my own space just as well.
2007-01-31 09:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to drop her like a hot potato! She's just taking advantage of you. She's the wrong kind of girl for you!
2007-01-31 09:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mike D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are being" too nice", this doesn't mean you should start being a total p r i c k but, some girls like a bit of a challenge, otherwise she may not be the one for you, some girl out there will appreciate you
2007-01-31 09:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it seems, you try to be extra polite, which may be making the girls more demanding, and greedy.
why can't you be just normal ?
do whatever suits to your pocket, mood, and the occasion.
girls might be thinking, you are desparate for company, perhaps ?
so make your selection correctly.
if the girl is still nagging, kick her on her butts, and go for another !
2007-01-31 09:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by palador 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
babe, you treet her with respect, thats more than most lads would do, she dont respect you, and you should get rid, find someone who thinks that you are the one, but you dont want them too clingy, plz chat a little more and i can give you advice on anything i can, lv chavin_it_riz x x x
2007-01-31 09:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by love_me_im_sweet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are not doing the wrong thing its just the wrong types of girls. fid a girl who isnt focused on material things but the bigger things in life...make sure she has the same interest in you as you do in her...
2007-01-31 09:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Oreo wit out the O 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋