A few weeks ago, my friend moved to the US to start a new job. We are on the same wave length and understand each other. I miss him so much. I don't know when we'll see each other again.
I have friends all over the world and keep in contact by email. We meet up whenever we can and I hate parting from them. But with my friend who has moved away, I feel a bit different because he was here all the time, my other friends were in other countries in the first place.
What can I do? I miss him so much.
2007-01-31 01:05:55 · 15 answers · asked by Tina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The best you can do for now is keep contact with him by writing letters,e-mails and by phone and tell him how much you miss him hopefully he will find time to keep you updated in the U.S
and one day you can make a visit
2007-01-31 01:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Larkin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1; sit down in a place thatholds special memories for you and your friend. write a letter to him. express your thoughts and feelings about him- everything that's gone on in your life since he left; everything you're planning on doing in the near future; tell him how much you miss him and suggest a date that's convenient for you to meet up- maybe going half the distance and meeting at a neutral place the first time you do. ask him about his new job, if he' made friends and settling in well. i bet he was really nervous, starting afresh in a completely different country with none of his home comforts or friends, i guarantee he's missing you as well. make the letterhappy and smiley, include jokes or anecdotes tht'll remind him of you and include a small photo of you and him or just you so he'll have something to remind him of the good times you had together. when you've finished, seal the envelope and place a kiss on the seal (i'm not kidding, this will help, i swear).
2, remain sitting a few moments- close your eyes and remember the happiest, or funniest or best time you had with your friend. picture the moment in your head, hold it close in your mind;remember how you felt, what you were wearing, wjhat you were thinking.
3, Keep that thought in your head as you stand up, post the letter to him and... go on your computer.
4, go to Google.co.uk and type in friendly chat rooms. s
5, start chatting. you'll find there are some really cool people out there who are feeling a bit lost and lonely like you at the moment.
6, KEEP SMILING!!!! nothing can hurt you in life if you always have a smile on your face.
i hope this helps.
xxxxx
2007-01-31 01:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can imagine how gutting that could be. Could you not save up for a holiday out there in summer?? maybe you could both go halves, might give you something positive to look forward to - there's always email/telephone/text, maybe you could both get web cams so you can see each other etc. It's always sad when someone moves away and I know it's a cliche but it will get easier in time. I know, one of my best mates and I used to meet up every week - he started a new job and I started a new job and it gets harder to meet up because we're both so busy - change is never easy and I really do sympathise , I'd be gutted if he moved away. I moved to abroad for a year for a job and missed everyone so much I came back, so you never know.
2007-02-01 01:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i am in the same boat as you my closest friend went on holiday to Australia for 5 weeks during Christmas. This is a usual occurrence accept this time she didn't come back. When i got in touch with her she told me that she has started school over there and will be coming back for a few months while she sorts out her residency. I am having a lot of trouble getting over the fact that i will never see her again, but i brush this pain away with the knowledge that at least now she is with people who love her and she has a better life over there. And besides it gives me an excuse to go to Australia and i will have somewhere free to say.
2007-01-31 02:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this. My friends didn't leave the country but moved away and I did to till I had the baby and moved back. Its really hard and you have to understand that people have to live their own lives.
I am still in touch with my friends we talk on the phone and via e-mail all the time and when we meet up it is like they have never been away-at the same time I have made new friends and they have been there for me when I needed them and I wouldn't change them for the world.
Get out there and meet people. Dont dwell on the fact someone has moved away and start enjoying yourself so you have somthin fun to tell him in your e-mails!
Good luck sweet!
2007-01-31 01:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by monkey-nuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You missed him so much partly because you have been so habituate to the life with him, since you can be habituate to this lifestyle you are also able to accept a new one, I'm sure.Time can be the best doctor.If you try to avoid seeing things that may remind you of him,the sadness will be deliberate day by day.Please believe me because once I had the same experience,and it was really a blue period of time.However, the rainbow will certainly come out one day since you have faced the storm bravely. Be tough and optimistic! It's no one else but yourself who help you find the rainbow.best wishes!
2007-01-31 14:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by sunflower0807 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good friend is hard to find and a true friend will be there until the end so dont worry i do understand because i am searching for a friend right now so hold on to your friend via email or telephone or letters through the mail, you know even the very best friends can find themselves drifting apart, life happens but a true friend will always be.
2007-01-31 01:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by my space 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe go out and find some other friends, i know how u feel, i live away at college and when I go home, i used to be so lonely, till i found myself a bf who lived in the local town, so i have a few friends from around that way.
go on! go out have a good time and meet ppl
2007-01-31 21:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by Charlottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal you are not the only one. im in your shoes. i have this friend who is miles away and i was so attached with him. we just simply keep contact by writing, but i sure miss him a lot. so dont worry there will be a time that you two will meet again. soon
2007-02-01 02:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bury it by potential of his grave area and say a small prayer. he will hear you besides . this is gloomy what has got here approximately to you. yet have self belief that he's happy have been ever he's and don't melancholy. you will take time to heal yet you will heal finally my expensive. you will on no account ever neglect him. you'll be able to fall in love with somebody else yet continually shop your recommendations of him with you and he will shelter you like an angel above.
2016-12-16 17:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋