What should I do?there is a relegious diffrent between us and, my family not letting me to marry him but I love him with all my heart and soul, and can't imagine my life without him,I don't want to hurt anyone but I'm hurting myself here, tell me please what to do?
2007-01-31 01:03:01 · 7 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you need to follow your heart. I understand the religious beliefs but at the same time Love is Love. If you are an adult you are free to marry whom ever you chose, maybe try to get your boyfriend more involved with your family. See if there is a compromise that can be done.
2007-01-31 01:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bridgette B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing many details I will say that in MOST cases, parents tend to have VERY GOOD reasons for not wanting their children to marry certain people. A lot of times, love can make us blind and parents are a bit more objective. Maybe you should take a step back and examine whether or not they are seeing something that you are not.
That being said, if he is a great guy with no flaws and you both love each other and religion isn't the issue, then you need to decide if he is worth possibly losing your family over. If so, then marry him...but remember that you may never have a relationship with your family again. If you are not willing to give your family up for him, then you need to get out of the relationship because prolonging a doomed relationship will get harder and harder to deal with in the future.
Good luck!
2007-01-31 01:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first question would be. Even though their is a religious difference. Are your own personal religions important to you?
I mean do you live after your own religious ideas? If you don't I don't see the issue with the relgious matter unless you lived after it. Then there could be issues down the road if your serious about your own personal faith.
Your parents biggest issue may be the religious thing. Are they more serious about their faith, than you? This could be why it is more of an issue with them than you.
I think if you both are in love, and your own faiths aren't important to you, then it shouldn't be a problem. Yet, if both find your faith to be imporant, the love will be great, but there will be religious issues down the road. I know from experience.
Goodluck!
2007-01-31 01:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My mom and pa are 15 years aside, my mom being older. It did not extremely artwork out for them because my dad grow to be on drugs continuously and dropping all of their funds. If he has achieveable-free interest and sincerly cares about you AND your emotions then you absolutely ought to get married. Is he wonderful to you? Is he a slob? those are the sorts of questions you ought to ask your self before tieing the knot. Does he do drugs? Will he be abusive many years down the line? Does he extremely savour my corporation? Does he like youngsters? can we nonetheless be safeguard in many years? How lengthy will this very last?
2016-12-03 06:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and how can they stop you if you are an adult? It is your choice whether you want to marry this guy or not however i do agree with your family as it is not a wise choice to marry someone of a different faith and religion but it still comes down to your choice and no one can make that choice for you if you are an adult!
2007-01-31 01:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the end it is not your family you are living with it is your mate. If you are of age and you both are in love and want to get married...then I say go for it. Families will either accept in time or not, but he is who you will grow old with not them.
be cool...
2007-01-31 01:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're a legal adult, they can't stop you. You must choose between him, and your family, a difficult choice. Good luck!
2007-01-31 01:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋