My two guy friends sit in front of me in my Electronics class, and they seem a little..uhh...touchy touchy..i dont know what to do..throw up or tell them to get a room...im tired of seeing them tuch n kiss what should i do to tell them to get off eachother...i dont want to sound mean and make them feel queer..even though they are to me..
2007-01-31 00:57:58 · 6 answers · asked by Dick Rice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just say, "Look, guys, could you please not do this during class? I can't concentrate. "
2007-01-31 01:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by retooser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes sexuality is a really tricky thing to try and get across to people .. beins as they are your friends its proabably best to be open with them.. you could ask to see them and explain to them you are not homophobic or anything like that you know they are gay but you just don't want to witness it 24 hours of the day say you'd prefer if they didnt do it in front of you. If you'd still feel mean doing that you could speak to them individually so its more comfortable 1 on 1 instead of 2 against 1.. they may be more accepting of ur opinions.. if you still feel mean doing that then you could write them an email telling them how you think it is really wonderful they are together and happy but wen u are around u'd rather they werent so forward with their 'gayness'
I'm sure they'll be reasonable with ur explanations and not feel bad about wat u have said.. my aunt and uncle have gay neighbours and we know they're gay but they're not gay in public if you get my drift.. they are truly wonderful people and can even have a laugh and a joke about being gay and camp. Good luck with it and just be honest.. if you don't tell them how u feel then they'll carry on as they are and it may make u reluctant to spend time with them.. the sooner you tell them the better it'll be.. hope this helped! = )
2007-01-31 01:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by cheekyluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 05:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them how you feel about the way their acting towards each other let them know it's bugging you a bit and if yall are real friends they would understand
2007-01-31 01:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I think you should discuss this issue with them. I mean, they're making you feel uncomfortable and you should sort it out!
Anyway....try not to worry about it too much.
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2007-01-31 01:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask to sit someplace else? Why does this bother you so much? Just ignore it and look somewhere else.
2007-01-31 01:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋