Would I want to look at pictures of my boyfriend's ex gf if I was falling out of love with him?

Question

I know this question sounds stupid but honestly would I be interested in seeing his ex and him together in pictures if I wasnt interested?

I found a disk and was very interested in the pics!

Would I even care if I didn't love him?

Answer 1

Sounds like your have a debate on how much your loving this guy.. that’s not good. And just looking at his pictures doesn't automatically mean love neither, could be morbid curiosity. Seems the real question here is if you’re falling out of love with him. The best way to answer that is to understand if you’re with him for him or because of some other insecurity or excuse. You know; can't do better, don't want to be alone, etc, etc. Or if your tell yourself damn him is such a great person, can't wait to see him again, I wonder what him did today, Why hasn't him called yet, o yea working damn I miss him. If that’s what’s going thru your mind your good to go, but if your just there then go! for the sake of both of you go! Another good thing to keep in mind is that love is an emotion, its there to inspire us to action! Not only inspire us but drive us insane and make us obsessive about our love object there is no questioning whether your in love because being able to ask that question usually means your not. But I can’t count out what it is I don’t know (your entire relationship with this guy) another thing to keep in mind is with true love nothing in a relationship feels like work, and it doesn’t feel hard. If your struggling with how you feel towards this guy then you are falling out of love, but if its easy to be with him, call him, talk to him, just plain love the man then don’t worry about you.