i am a chinese girl fallen in love with a british born muslim guy, who is 10 years older. I'm 24 and he is 34. We started to get close a month ago, but at the beginning, he told me that he doesnt want to get involved in any relationship etc right now, and in future he wants to marry someone from pakistan and not from anywhere else. We got physical,though he said he doesnt really go as far with other girls, but we can only be friends,i want future with him, what can i do?does he love me?how do i win him over?i've tried to avoid his calls and seein him for a few days and he tells me he misses me alot and want to see me.I feel that he has strong feelings for me, but will sacrific me as he is really stubborn and will stick to his own philosopy.He wants to continue to see me but there won't be future. what can I do, i cannot leave him. Also, is it a sin to have sex before marriage if he is muslim?
2007-01-31 00:48:56 · 2 answers · asked by just a girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships