14 . i hate to act and wear like the gays . ihave alot of freinds guys and girls > but my best friends are guys at my age and idont have any weird ffealings to them . but im so attractive to the guys that they are older than me. but im so afraid to attractive to my best friends in the high school. and so afraid to be out of the controle and make any moves to my chillly teacher and my swimming coach. i cant controle my self. but there is no body in the earth know that am agay. how can i have sex
2007-01-31 00:23:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I suggest you have sex with yourself then focus on your communication skills.
2007-01-31 00:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
It's not abnormal for you to have these feelings, but I would strongly suggest you take some time to mature a little bit more. Sex at such a young age is not healthy, either Straight or Gay. Too much pressure is put on people to have sex at an earlier age and that really isn't healthy for the mind or the body.
As for those who answer with pat religious quotes or admonitions, just ignore them, they don't really care about you so much as trying to keep you from being who you are.
Sit back, chill, think about it, but ultimately it is your decision so be wise, talk to someone if you can but don't pressure yourself either.
2007-01-31 08:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First learn how to speak properly so that you can at least ask for sex.
Then rob a grocery store or something stupid so that you can get thrown in prison and I'm sure you'll get all the perverted gay sex in there you can stand and you won't even have to ask!
2007-01-31 09:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by huckleberry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 14 you should be thinking about your schooling. The sex can come later when you are comfortable with who you are.
2007-01-31 08:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the hell you just said, but whatever the problem is, it's probally the least of your worries, if that's how you actually talk.
2007-01-31 08:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let some years in between till you develop skill in relationships with other fellow mates....or try some straigth affairs to get experience.
2007-01-31 08:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lic. York 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Almighty gave us a great gift in love sex and marriage. If you take it apart, you destroy it!
2007-01-31 08:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah, It's normal.
2007-01-31 08:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not always sex. be sure of what u feel. there is also bisexual
2007-01-31 08:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by jett 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋