Each time I ask him to go down to the beach with me he says no.
When he notices a certain man there, a friend of ours who lives with his old mother, he rushes downstairs.
When I ask him to go swimming with me, he says no. Later on he would ask that man if he would like swimming with him.
That man is not gay and he enjoys my company much. My husband asking makes him akward.
Our married life is more like two good old friends living together and that since the beginning. I feel I am still attractive in other men's eyes save in my husband's.
I can't help wondering if the latter had not had better to acknowledge his homosexuality if it so.
2007-01-31 00:12:01 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Bo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think U have a real problem & U must have regonize the sign of him being gay be 4 U asked this ?. there R alot of down low men who are trying 2 play the straight role by getting married, 2 hide the fact that there are gay from their family & friends, not careing who they hurt in the process. You,my dear needs 2 run and get out as fast as U can, because AIDS R real and U can not get rid of that disease. Your husband is interesting in mens and has always been, but, is afraid 2 come out of the closet because he is ashame of what his family will think & his buddys'.
2007-01-31 01:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Fannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband have any male friends that he catches up with?? It may not actually have anything to do with sexuality, but loneliness for companionship outside the marriage?? Do you live in each others pockets?? Males do have to yearning to do blokey things with blokes, doesnt mean they want to poke them. Maybe he is bored. Ask him in a round about way. You may really offend him if you say that you suspect he is gay/bi.
2007-01-31 15:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by scorpiosa70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Maybe he tried to fool himself and married you to try to be straight. If that's the case then he's not happy and you won't be either. Better find out now so you guys can make the change before your whole life is wasted. Good luck.
2007-01-31 00:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like possibly and i cant say for sure he could be bi.. and maybe doesnt want to tell you for fear of rejection..If you guys have sex and he is hanging out with this guy maybe he has an interest in both. .or hey this is just a thought maybe the guy is a drug dealer or works for your husband in some illegal activity and he doesnt want you to know about it.. or well that could just be totally off the wall but anything could be possible
2007-01-31 12:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your husband has some issues to work out. But he might just be bisexual, not gay.
2007-01-31 00:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be gay or bisexual... Ask him about this and see what he has to say about it....If he is gay then divorce him and move on with your life.
2007-01-31 01:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but maybe he just likes hanging out with his friend a lot becaue he feels very relaxed.
2007-01-31 00:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE'S TESTING THIS GUY TO SEE IF HE LIKES YOU. HE MIGHT FIGURE THAT IF YOU ASK HIM TO SWIM WITH YOU AND HE DOES THAT HE'S ATTRACTED TO YOU. BUT IF HE ASKS HIM TO GO SWIMMING WITH HIM AND HE SAYS NO, THAT WILL REAFFIRM HIS THEORY. IF HE SAYS YES, THEN HE CAN REASSURE HIMSELF THAT THE GUY TRULY IS JUST A FRIEND TO YOU.
2007-01-31 01:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he could be gay. Sounds like your marraige has gone stale.
2007-01-31 01:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is gay or he just does not like you.
2007-01-31 00:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by Angela C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋