If you marriage is falling apart, and your pathner don't really love you what will you do to make it better?
Many thanks to you all....
2007-01-30 23:32:31 · 16 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I woudl start treating my MAN better. I woudl start thanking him for things, stop nagging him to death on petty issues and stop thinking that I am the center of the universe.
I woudl also read this book "The proper care and feeding of Husbands" Dr. Laura.
that will help so much! And please don't go "Ugh, I have to do all this for a guy? What will he do for me?" Because if you go on and have that mentallity, then NOTHING will be gained from you giving yourself freely, only a selfish grab for attention that will backfire badly...
2007-01-30 23:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage is a Team Effort!
If you don't communicate, love, etc.. One person can not make a marriage work... You have to remember, YOU DON'T WANT A PERSON THAT DOESN'T RESPECT & LOVE YOU BACK.
2007-01-31 09:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by sbratt2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce. Living in a loveless marriage is a living hell. I did it for twenty years, just waiting for the children to grow up, so I could leave. They did, and I did, and now I am living happily ever after.
2007-01-31 07:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would first find out where his heart was at, and if he would consider therapy. i would tell him i wanted to make it work, but if for any reason they weren't interested in saving the marriage i would distance myself, have a plan, save some money, and leave the marriage. as we have no control over others or their belief system. we only have control over ourselves.
2007-01-31 07:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Patient dont change youre love for him,Love him,take care of him seems like nothing was ,if you got a nice timing talk to youre ralationship and Pray...And time will come youre love to each other will fire again..God Bless You
2007-01-31 07:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by naomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try harder..if he gives 20 percent you give 80 and then when he gives 80 percent you give 100 .marriage is work and well love takes work..its not magic like most people think
2007-01-31 20:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still wants to try, get counseling. He may be done and if that is the case, it is time to end it. If both partners aren't into making things work, it won't. Good luck to you.
2007-01-31 08:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There seems to be not much left to be done. But one can try to talk it over to find out the cause of friciton and resolve if possible.
2007-01-31 08:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey pumpkin, stop wasting your life on someone who doesn't respect you! Take all the love and beauty you have left and find someone worthy of the fabulous you that you know you are!!!
2007-01-31 07:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by heypumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't love you then I'd think it's over. Try counseling and move on if that doesn't work.
Maybe this will cheer you up...
One day my housework-challenged husband decided to wash his sweatshirt. Seconds after he stepped into the laundry room, he shouted to me, "What setting do I use on the washing machine?"
"It depends," I replied. "What does it say on your shirt?"
He yelled back, "University of Oklahoma."
And they say blondes are dumb...
2007-01-31 12:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋