if one of your friends, a straight bloke, had loads of gay friends and had shared a bed with one of them several times after a night out, would you acuse the straight bloke of being gay?
2007-01-30 22:16:43 · 29 answers · asked by Russell 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
nothing happened, just drunk and sleeping, neither of us mind sleeping in a bed together as we are best mates
2007-01-30 22:38:52 · update #1
i would certainly question his claims that hes straight
2007-01-30 22:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally wouldn't! If they're only sharing a bed then i can't see what the problem is,all it means is they were both too drunk and tired too worry about who was in the bed aswell so it didn't make any difference. Anyway there's nothing wrong with sharing a bed with someone of the same sex even if you are straight and all it usually means is that you feel comfortable with doing that. At the end of the day i'm lesbian and i've shared a bed with a straight female friend many times without anything other than sleep going on,so would you say my friend's gay too? I know for a fact she is 100% straight and nobody that knows her,(or that she shared a bed with me ),has accused her of being gay. So unless it bothers you that your friend is doing that,why are you even worrying about it!
2007-01-31 21:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by SHAKIRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are people always assuming that sharing a bed, hugging the same sex, or even having sex with the same sex makes someone gay? Being gay really has nothing to do with these things, anymore that it would on the flip side. Being straight and being gay isn't about the other person who makes you c**, a dog can do that, it's about who you find fulfilling and fall in love with.
The answer is no, getting drunk and sleeping in the same bed as someone who is gay does not make you gay. If that were true I'm sure there would be few straight guys out there. Besides, whoever it is needs to make up his own mind, not have others on yahoo questions make it up for him.
2007-01-30 23:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Chris A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing here is dont acuse any one of being gay your friendship could be lost, and if he was gay does it matter. As for sharing a bed with a guy that means nothing, i have shared a bed with female friends on numerous occasions, so does that make me straight...(Im gay by the way)
2007-01-30 23:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by noireck66 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you say 'shared a bed', do you mean they just slept in it together? I wouldn't accuse him of anything at all. I mean, it's just sharing a bed. I've shared a bed with some of my girlfriends before - it's so completely normal.
Men seem to have a hang up about sexuality. If two women slept in the same bed after a night out, you wouldn't accuse them of being gay!
Floors and sofas are uncomfortable, so why not share a bed if there's one available?
2007-01-30 22:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the gay bit out here a sec, so it's basically 2 gus sleeping in the same bed but nothing has EVER happened.
No I'd not think a thing. Some people are just comfortable with their own sexuality. I don't see a problem.
2007-01-31 00:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ive slept with my best mate loads of times and nothing ever happened,just cause you sleep with another man doesnt make you GAY thats a real childish way of thinking.
2007-02-01 01:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by The Exorcist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sharing a bed with someone of the same sex doesn't make you gay, the phenomenon you describe is commonly known as 'crashing out' or 'sleeping in the same bed cos you're too pissed to care'. Now if you're doing rudies with someone of the same sex then there is at least a tendancy
2007-01-30 22:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Karen S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What is he says sex did happen ? will you fall out with him . what if the gay bloke was really straight will you fall out with him ? Why do you ask and or care ? If I was a mate of yours your enquiry would be telling me that you are jealous
2007-02-02 13:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accuse is a strong word for this. It would not mean either is gay. In cold weather my dog shares my bed and neither of us is interested in further activity
2007-02-01 21:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by Professor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definately not.....Women dot his all the time as long as the straight guy is straight and not trying to lie to himself then i see no reason why anyone should be asking such a personal question.. Speak to your mate and find out what is going on.......There is nothing wrong with straight guys to have gays as friends....
2007-01-30 22:22:01 · answer #11 · answered by GRANDMA 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋