well 2yrs ago i was engage but things didnt work out for me and my fiance and i left him he got married 6months after i left him his wife got preagnat and i was preagnet to by so one that i was seeing so we both had our kids they are 4months now he got deivorce once again and i started screwing around with him again and i got preagnet im 1month i stoped seeing him because he started a new relation ship and he told his girl to call me and tell me to back off from their life so i told him that i will let him be happy with his new relation-ship and ill move on and now the disaster hits me that am preagnet and should i tell him or just have the baby with out telling him that hes gong to be a dad once again i dont want to get in the way of his new relation ship so what should i do now please need edvice fast.
2007-01-30 22:13:37 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
USE BIRTHCONTROL YOU DOLT!
2007-01-30 22:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he should be told he's going to be a father again, but leave it at that, and don't have anything more to do with him unless it involves picking up/dropping off kids etc. He has been wiping his feet on you for some time now and it's time you stopped allowing him to do it. The sooner you stand up and walk away, the better you will feel about yourself. Hope this helps you, kind regards, Penny x
2007-01-30 22:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Vanessa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats actually very common. You are probably afraid of what will happen. I dont know why you are a single mother but if the relationship with the person you had your child/children went poorly then you are probably afraid that it will happen again and you should just go with the flow find out if your child/ children like him and see how it goes. Children tend to be the best judges of character so if they are old enough listen to them because they dont tend to make things like that up. Good Luck
2016-05-23 22:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a right to know, do not keep it from him because he now has certain responsibilities. I'm not saying that you and he should get back together, but he needs to recognize the fact that he does have children of his own and HE IS OBLIGED TO PAY FOR CHILD SUPPORT until you are married to another man who can take on that responsibility.
I you want to make it interesting, Maury Povich is theming alot on DNA paternity tests these days...bring him on the show if he denies that your children are also his children :)
2007-01-30 22:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling that you will be chasing this creature for the rest of your life.
Please give the baby up for adoption to a couple who is responsible & worthy. This baby is what is most important, not your careless relationship & "his new relationship"...This baby does not deserve either of you as parents.
Use birth control from now on. How ridiculous are you?
2007-01-30 23:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him so that he knows there wil be no point in hiding when you know for sure that he is the father..speak to him and hear what he says about it and if you want to go ahead and have the baby go ahead,but the baby will be without a father in his/her life which is quite unfair for both you and the baby
2007-01-31 00:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't have gotten pregnant by him. if he has left u several times before maybe the relationship just isn't meant to be. he doesn't even have the courage to call u himself and tell u, he puts the new woman up to it. have self respect for yourself, don't get involved with men who use u and hurt u. i would file for child support, but i would never allow this man back into your life, as he has already prooven he can't be counted on.
2007-01-30 22:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your tubes tied.
Leave everyone alone.
I also suggest you find the period key on your keyboard and learn how to use it. You wrote a 200 word sentence!
2007-01-30 22:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He helped bring your babies into this world and you need to hit him up for child support. Ignore what his current woman has to say, she's damn lucky he hasn't gotten her pregnant too.
2007-01-30 23:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a direct contradiction to evolution.
2007-01-30 22:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋