well i'm from jordan and i went to live in newzealand and suddnly there is no friends no one to talk with
help how to make it up? i'm always sad
2007-01-30 21:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Pick up a hobby or try a sport . You wont take long making new friends .
2007-01-30 21:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Dakota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's good that you came to the Yahoo answers. You probably feel alienated being in a new homeland. You obviously own a computer for there you can communicate with all sorts of potential friends. What are your interests and hobbies? Perhaps you could talk to those with similar likes and dislikes as yourself. Are there any fellow Jordanians to whom you could write either by way of email or pen and paper? Are there any places in NZ where you could meet those with similar interests? If so, please take advantage of this. Consider your age as well, there's something out there for all ages. Also, if you love animals, consider getting a pet. A dog needs to be walked, and dogs, by nature, are very sociable creatures. You can meet a good deal of people when your out walking your friend. And dogs and cats have an uncanny ability to read human behavior. They know when you're lonely and will offer that wordless, almost telepathic comfort only animals can offer.
2007-01-31 04:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was young, my family used to move quite a bit. But not to another country. Everywhere I went, I made new friends. Kept in touch with a few old ones though. My opinion is, if you have to be a different person to get new friends, then those new 'friends' are not worth being friends with. Just make sure you try to fit in. That is very important, and very different from trying to be somebody else :)
2007-01-30 21:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I can understand...
First and foremost, go to a place of worship...find ppl there who believe the same as u do (I'm Christian and that was the 1st thing I did)...
Also try and be friendly...usually girls bond with each other much easily compared to guys...being from S'pore and moving to live in Australia I've seen Asian,Greek, Pacific Islander, Italian, Lebanese, American girls bond well with the local Australian girls...so it will be fine with u.
Find some common ground, like...what courses u are doing, take an interest in other ppl, watch movies/TV shows together...that's what I did with my uni friends...
2007-01-30 21:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sigh... same prob here... worse is that people expect to have a student coming from another country and they get so excited about it. then she comes. after all the excitement, then I come. am the second one, i got left behind because the immigration sucks. i came a week later. all the excitement has died down and i can't get a friend anywhere...
you know what i did? i didn't puppy around anyone. i forced myself to be confident. i befriended everyone and now i have tons. as for the boring part, you may try going to parks or do a sport you like, you may meet people who have the same interest as you then you may start conversing from there. good luck!!!
2007-01-30 22:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear that even the happy married people experience lonley each and every so often. And from what I hear it does not ensue each and all the time. while it does ensue each and all the time you ought to re-examine each and every thing on your existence happening. Then in case you alter what you may and nonetheless experience lonely then perhaps you ought to hunt for professional help. sturdy success.
2016-09-28 05:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by duktig 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't call your friends from there?
well try being more open...b/c i know I can look unfriendly sometimes...and this girl that I'm now good friends with...well we were both new t the school....she's like me...she looks miserable when she's not talking to anyone...and I hesitated to talk to her...but I was like...what the hell I need some friends here...and it turns out she's really nice
...now the reason some people didn't come up to me...was probably b/c I looked like I was ready to kill someone...even though I was calm lol...so just smile more....be more friendly....I don't know how old you are...but lets say you're out of school...when you're at the doctor's office...talk to someone next to you...make jokes and all that...
2007-01-30 21:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wel,yes.iam feeling it now.just wait.go to public places.always keep a sweet smile on ur face.b friendly,frank and helpful towards people dere,especially to peole of ur age.U'll get lots of good friend very soon!
2007-01-30 23:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by humus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no. i have got plenty of freinds and we all stay in touch. what does it feel like to be lonely?just keep searching and youll find some. ill be ya freind you can talk to me on msn or suttin if you have it. holla back (write back) bless
2007-01-30 21:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kid Fro$ty / $up3rman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make friends.Be friendly yo people.Be yourself.Dont worry your not the only one.You wont always feel this way try yo blend in .
2007-01-30 21:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋