I fantasize about girl girl sex very often, so I wanted to try it out and do it. Will that make me a lesbian? A friend of mine said No - I would be a bi-sexual because I am just doing it for sex and sex only not a relationship.
I guess my issue is girl on girl sex is a lesbian act. If I have sex with a girl will that make me a lesbian even if only do it once?
2007-01-30 21:32:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sexual orientation is determined by which gender(s) we find attractive not who we sleep with.
If you only find women attractive then you are a lesbian
If you only find men attractive you are straight.
If you find both attractive you are bi.
If you find neither attractive you are asexual.
2007-01-30 22:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Curious Lesbian Sex
2016-11-01 00:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by rybicki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about labels, whether you are gay, bi, lesbian, or straight you have feelings for this girl and you should go for it. This may be an experience that helps define your sexuality. Go with your feelings and as long as you aren't hurting yourself or another person there is nothing to worry about.
2007-01-30 23:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha hell yes u definitely should. Its fantastic and if ur actually into the girls looks then its better :) oh and u gotta ask her first but ya know what if ur her friend and she thinks ur straight then she prolly had a crush on u at one point cuz that always flippin happens when a girl likes their other "straight" friend so best of luck to ya! :) dont get feelings involved tho girls can suck worse then guys lol
2016-05-23 22:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bisexual people don't automatically sleep around, nor do they always engage in sexual relationships just for sex. They do have monogamous relationships - don't reduce them to purely physical motives, please. Being lesbian, gay & bisexual ALL involve an emotional, as well as physical, attraction to the same or both sexes.
Operating purely on sexual behavior won't make you a lesbian or bisexual - it will make you a straight woman who is sexually active with women. You've said yourself, it's a fantasy. If you fulfill it, then you've engaged in sex with a woman. That's all. Sex is just behavior, it's no indicative of your orientation - gay people force themselves to have sex with straight people in order to hide. Doesn't make them heterosexual. Doesn't make you gay.
2007-01-31 00:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No. It some cases you may be just curious about the thought, or the act and not necessarily be attracted to other women. Or it may be that you like women!
2007-01-31 00:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it Will make you a stronger person, follow your fantasizes, learn for yourself, explore. you are free to be you.
as stated you are not seeking a relationship, just curious.
try it more than once, the first girl you will be shy and she maybe to
work on what you want<==
2007-01-31 00:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by timestamps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it won't make you a lesbian. my wife has tryed it out of curiousity and she said she might try it again. it was fun and she enjoyed it but she is not a lesbian by any means... so if you want, you should try what makes you happy...
2007-02-01 10:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by jabbernaut_1955 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That depends. If you like doing it and do it often, your lesbian. If you just do it sometimes, its OK
2007-02-01 13:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by shattered 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends if you liked it. If you enjoy having sex with women and want to have sex with women in the future, then you'd be either les, bi, or pan.
2007-01-31 10:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋