Here's the scenerio....(get ready for lesbian drama)
History: Lesbian #1 dated lesbian #2 AND lesbian #3.
Friendship Status: Lesbian #1 and #2 are still really good friends (dispite the breakup). Lesbian #1 and #3 are also friends.
Now, Lesbian #2 and #3 are dating. They know each other through their mutual Ex---lesbian #1.
Lesbian #1 is not cool with this. Lesbian #2 only told lesbian #1 what is happening after a date with lesbian #3.
Is lesbian #1 over-reacting or is it clearly seen as hurtful for an ex to date your other ex?
2007-01-30 19:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by •ºJen•º 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm really confused. I can only imagine how confused you are.
2007-01-30 20:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man, but if I were Lesbian #1, it would bother me as well. If they are both Lesbian #1 friends, they would consider her feelings in the situation. On the other hand, Lesbians #2 and 3 may have developed real feelings for each other accidentally, which clouded any rational judgement which seems obvious to someone on the outside. It sucks, but love can be cruel.
2016-03-28 21:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesbians
2007-01-30 20:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really comes down to how the break up went and the reasons you broke up. However honestly i believe Lesbian #1 Should at least relish in the fact that something good has come out of her two not so good (ending) past relationship.
Hope that made sense :)
2007-01-31 01:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i got lost with the lesbian # who dated lesbian # 2 and all, but anyway, it depends, does your ex have feelings for the ex you want to date? I dated an ex gf's ex boyfriend. the only issue i had with the ex girlfriend was that she still liked me, she didnt care about me dating the ex boyfriend though
2007-01-30 20:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by jci2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be hurtful for her but what do either of the other two have to do with her now. It would be wrong for a friend to impose conditions on who her friends can and cannot see.
2007-01-30 22:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try to branch out of your immediate circle.
hope this helps...
I dated this girl for two years -- and then the nagging starts: "I wanna know your name..."
The last fight was my fault. My girlfriend asked, "What's on the TV?" and I said, "Dust!"
2007-01-31 05:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as to the initial question.. NOPE.. any one single or with permission is fair game to me... male or female.. reguardless of orientation..
Umm whats the lesbian angle have to do with this again?
2007-01-30 20:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't live your life to appease others. You can not live your life to be popular, either. You must live your life to be HAPPY.
Anyone who is not happy for your happiness is not your friend.
2007-01-30 20:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by Just Ask Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, how would you feel if ur ex did this too you?
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2007-01-30 20:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋