well im pregnant with my boyfriends baby (6 weeks 3 days) and he knows about it as he came with me when i got it approved.
he is also comming to every appointment that i have. (we have our first ultrasound Feb 20)
do you think he will ask me to marry him? if so when do you think?
we have been dating for almost 3 years and we have both been trying for this baby, we both agreed to it and we both want one.
(the baby is planned)
he says he will "one day"
what do you think?
2007-01-30 19:50:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well i dont want to get married i just think engagement would be nice... marrage can wait i agree
2007-01-30 20:02:40 · update #1
i'm 20 and i have been with my hubby for 4 years.We have a 2 year old boy together but have only been married since march last year... when the time is right, he will ask you to marry him... I got engaged after 5 months of being together. so dont stress about it...
2007-01-30 20:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by brunette_mum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he will eventually, but don't rush it. just because you are pregnant, it doesn't mean you HAVE to be married. you have a great relationship now and you are expanding your family.... most guys are afraid that marriage will change that or ruin it! (i have been with my man for 5 years and we have a 16 month old and we are still not married, but still very happy!)
Just don't push him into it so you don't build resentment, but you can always drop tiny hints, like "Look at that ring! Wow!" while passing a jewelry store counter or in a magazine, but don't look at him or make any kind of gesture that you are pushing him into it. eventually, subconsiencly he'll get an idea that he wants to get married and you will! anyways, you need to save all the money you can for this baby and save for a wedding later. congrats!!!
2007-01-31 03:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by lynn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I didn't want to get married before my first two were born and my fiance and I agreed to wait after the second baby (they both came sooner than we had expected), but now he wants to get married beofre our third is born. I would say to just give him time and he'll come through eventually, don't worry about when.
2007-01-31 04:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mamma M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow I don't know...marriage did not seem to be a criteria to having a baby so maybe he doesn't want to get married...didn't you talk about it in the last 3 years
2007-01-31 04:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by Olive 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey i know this isnt for me to judge but y havent you gotten married 1st then plan the baby hehe but to tel you the truth yes i think he will
2007-01-31 03:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Party Girl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋