There are people who believes that it is better to savor the taste of success alone without thinking of anybody`s welfare and forfeit happiness rather than be with someone you quarrel often
2007-01-30 19:01:10 · 6 answers · asked by lizashibuya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it would be with sharing your life with someone you truly love will make you successful. When you are down, who helps you get right back up? When you are sick, who will comfort you? When you become a father/mother, who will say "thank you"? When you want to feel loved, who will say that they love you?
Nothing is more important than having a wife/husband who cares deeply for you and who also loves you. Being with someone to share your life is much, much, more important than having riches and glory.
2007-01-30 19:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be both, as long as you're both on the same wave length. If you're success and career motivated, your partner has to either support that or also be success and career motivated.
This is something you discuss openly and honestly before you decide to marry.
There is a long list of things which people contemplating marriage need to discuss and work through. What's your financial plan? Are you a saver or a spender? What is your partner? Do you want children? What is your parenting style? And so on and so forth.
2007-01-31 03:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to be married to two. If your other half is working for the same goal. It is better to end success feeling full. Most people in joy the journey more the the final goal.Good luck do not let any one stop your dream.
2007-01-31 03:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I am MORE successful with my spouse to support me and help keep my priorities in check. I think if you find the person who will do that for you, go for it. I think of success not in terms of monetary gain but in terms of life-balance. If all you do is work you're probably not going to be that happy. Your job is only one part of your life.
That said, don't get married just for the sake of getting married. You don't want to get stuck with someone you argue with all the time for the rest of your life. But if you find the right person go ahead!
2007-01-31 03:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Hamlette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a miserable relationship is not living it is only existing... i would rather be successful alone than miserable with someone i have to look across the breakfast table at for 50 years...
2007-01-31 03:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by sassyalleycat55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-31 03:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Sania R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋