Alright, this is kinda embarassing ... so why not post it for the entire world to see right? lol. anyways, i am a young woman and have been sexually active for about 4 years. my problem is this: i have only been able to achieve an orgasm in the missionary position. I've tried every position imaginable with no luck. Any advice you could give me would be helpful.
2007-01-30 18:48:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Just be happy you reach orgasm in the first place.
2007-01-30 18:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great news..you ARE having an orgasm so you're a step ahead of many women out there. I suggest that you start exploring your body alone and when you are totally comfortable with no worries that someone might walk in on you. Decide which position you want to achieve an orgasm, for example, if you want to be on top of man. Start by Looking at your body in the mirror and admire it, touching, pinching, pulling nipples, wetting with your fingers etc. Love yourself for a few minutes. Then Position yourself in this position pretending a man is underneath you and explore your privates (inserting finger(s), rubbing in all areas, changing speed, listen to your breathing, tighten your buttocks, etc) and continue to do so until you do reach an orgasm. It may not happen the first try but continue another time and you will get there. The point is you must be comfortable not only with your body and position but also letting go no matter which position you have at the moment. Good Luck, all my best. M.
2007-01-30 19:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lep,
Kind of a loaded lead, eh?
Beware of self-proclaimed experts. I am not, by any stretch.
I am surprised you do not achieve orgasm in the you-on-top position...it allows you to control the angle and depth, and women usually get better clitoral stimulation in that position.
I would be interested in what it is about the missionary that gets you there...you won't orgasm, even from oral?
I would say, at the end, "if it ain't broke, don't fix it." Unless you're just real broken up about not being able to come any other way, I would try to find out what it is about being on the bottom makes you feel so good, and try to replicate it in other positions.
2007-01-30 18:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfsburgh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOT AN SEX EXPERT......but I do enjoy sex myself and have gotten some pretty wild results so here it goes....the most crazy positions and my favorite is one leg up knee at head and the other leg down on the bed. HELPFUL HINT: Choose the leg opposite from the hand u write with to be up and move your leg in a comfortable position when u feel that your bout to blow.
2007-01-30 19:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lep512, as the missionary position allows for deeper penetration, it might be a good idea to find ways on how to achieve the satisfactory depth with other positions. It may also help if you stimulate your clitoris with the other positions.
2007-01-30 19:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by avalones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you can achieve one at all. It should get better as time goes on.
The ability to orgasm is essential for a male to reproduce and virtually all males can orgasm. It has no reproductive function in a female and not all females have enough male hormones to enable them to orgasm.
Clearly you have enough male hormones and so as your levels of male hormones stay steady while your female hormes gradually drop you should have better and better orgasms.
2007-01-30 23:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky that you can achieve orgasm in that position. Many women never do. Just keep practicing is all the advice I can give you.
2007-01-30 18:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-23 16:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Positions are for fun - Do what makes you happy and fulfilled.
Your partner needs to know this and understand it - If he don't then find someone that will.
2007-01-30 18:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by The Dude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could have you or your partner perform clitoral stimulation during penetration.
2007-01-30 18:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jem 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋