2007-01-30 18:41:40 · 13 answers · asked by obi_wan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
have u tried asking her and not us? maybe u should stop asking others and talk to her and stop being afraid of her she isnt your mother she is your wife. now go talk to her
2007-01-30 18:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by KB48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't tell you, and our guesses might be wrong. Two possibilities, that demand VERY different responses:
A) You're unreliable or a jerk. This would make her mad ;)
B) She gets upset, and you get sucked into it, rather then staying calm. When her emotions are going wild, she may throw them at you. In those situations, what she needs is for you to remain _calm_ to be her anchor so that she can stablize her feelings.
So ... my suggestions would be:
Be a good husband. Not a 'super nice' husband, not following every whim of your wifes. Think about what you can do to be, in your mind, a _good_ husband.
Be reliable in all ways. Your wife should rely on you, and your word, and your calmness. Don't say you'll do something and not follow through. On the other hand, if your wife asks you to do something you don't want to do and won't do, tell her no. She may get upset then, but over time, she'll be MUCH happier if you are a decent, reliable man, rather then a quivering doormat who just tries to appease her in the short run.
Be her emotional support, not by getting sucked into her feelings, but by being a source of happyness and stability. Don't let her anger and worry infect you, instead infect her with your joy and contentment.
k.
2007-01-31 03:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you help her out? Lift her up instead of put her down? Ask her for her opinion? Ask her how her day went? Get the book The % Love Languages by Gary Chapman. I believe this book has saved my marriage. Also read the book by Gary Smalley called If Only He Knew. When a husband understands his wife's needs and learns how to meet those needs, the relationship will grow rapidly!
2007-01-30 19:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing your job in bed perfectly, if u used to give her a hand at home, if u take her out for dinner from time to time, if u used to wake up in the morning smiling & saying "good morning" my sweet heart, if u have some good answers for your kids silly questions and finally if u remember her birthday in the proper time with a nice gift, if u are doing all the above and she still upset, then dont hizitate, go for divorce.
2007-01-30 19:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sherif S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she expects something from you, maybe your not being understanding or something or if your a good guy watch out, when a spouse starts getting bother about everything, it might be that shes having an affair. But dont jump into conclusions ask her why shes mad all the time. If she dont talk to you then keep your eyes open she may be doing something shes not suppose too...
2007-01-30 21:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by chicamex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be reasons why yr wife always upset with you? Think about it? What are the causes? Are you caring enough? Do you spend enough time with her? Do you concern over her?
2007-01-30 20:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by Leo Juv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-17 08:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't mad @ you. Maybe she is going through some things & just takes it out on you. Try & sit her down & talk to her if she is willing. Find out whats going on. Maybe there is someting you can do to help make her happy. Good luck!
2007-01-30 19:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by bitch_goddess_72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are too vague. We need details to answer this...you are upsetting me just by being so vague.
2007-01-30 19:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you give an example. Do you come on to her and do her? If not, that would be a reason to be mad. Do you have a job? Same answer.
2007-01-30 18:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋