My wife talks during love making, how can I ask her in a romantic way to be quiet while I (you know)!?

Answer 1

put your finger to her lips and say"shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh" real slow

Answer 2

Do you listen to her the rest of the time? Is sex the only time when she has your full attention? She might be talking then because she has things to tell you and you won't listen otherwise.

Why don't you try talking dirty to her during sex? She'll make some random comment, and then you say, "Mmm, I love the way your ---- feels, you're so sexy...etc..." Every time she says something, just respond with a sexy comment. She'll get the hint, or she'll realize that she's not getting through to you. Either way, she'll stop.

If you do talk to her about it, make sure it's not in the bedroom and that you're both dressed when you talk about it. Start out with, "Honey, I love listening to everything you have to say, and I love the way your voice sounds..." to let her know it's not her that you have the problem with, just her habit.

Answer 3

Tell her before the session(s) begins. Never discuss unpleasant things in the bedroom if you can help it.
"Sweetie-it breaks my concentration and kind of ruins it for me when you talk during our passionate interludes and I like thinking about you completely while I am making love to you, but my concentration is broken when you talk like that" This on a note with a box of candy and flowers should do it!
Oh, give it to her during the day in the kitchen-not in the heat of the moment and definitely not in the bedroom!
Hope this solves yor problem and you can get on with it (no pun intended-well yes it was)!

Answer 4

This was something the two of you should have discussed before you got married. Incompatibility in the bedroom is a major cause of divorce. If you didn't want to be with a woman who talked during sex why did you marry one?

Answer 5

Does she talk dirty or does she talk about who she met at the mall, etc?

If it's the latter, then you've got a problem on your hands - you are boring the woman!

If it's the former, then she's a kinky girl and you're in luck - try gagging her, she'll probably love it and you can just call it "role playing" and she'll never know your alterior motive

Answer 6

Depends on what the subject is! If she's trying to figure out what shade of paint for the celling....you've got more problems than being turned off!

Answer 7

Just kiss her in the mouth and tell her you want things to be romantic and whisper it to her ear. She will get the hint.

Answer 8

You shouldn't tell her during your "love making." Tell her anytime but then, just tell her straight up "I think it would be more romantic and pleasing for both of us if you don't talk during sex." It's likely she doesnt realize that she's doing it and she doesnt realize it bothers you. Just tell her and she'll feel embarassed and stopped.

Answer 9

Man, I wouldn't ask her to stop nothing... If she's saying how she wants it, Give it to her that way. If she's calling out your name, Slap her a high five and holla back "Who's the man". Bottom line: Stop complaining and ENJOY... She could be talkig to someone else "If you catch my drift"...

Answer 10

Ohhhhh! I vote for the putting your finger to her lips and going shhhhh.. and my boyfriend kisses me whenever he wants me to shut up... which must be quite a bit now that I think about it. ha ha!

Answer 11

tell her you love it when she talks dirty to you while making love but it makes it hard for you to concentrate when u blow..lol so she might be able to say are you close to blowing and you can say yes shhh..lol im sure she'll be fine with that.