My friends dad is really hot, he drives us to swimming training & has a swim while we are at practice,
I find myself looking at him and thinking what it would be like to be in his strong arms.
She has no idea i feel this way about her dad, but i have always had a thing for older guys.
She knows that I'm gay but i don't know how she would take the idea that i want to be her dads puppy.
I will be 17 on Feb the 5th and all i want for my birthday is to find true love.
2007-01-30 17:45:22 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
WHAT EVER YOU DO, dont tell her! it'll screw things up... keep in inside- or... you know, pursue daddy without her knowing.
2007-01-30 18:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by louie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I certainly wouldn't mind having had a shot at my neighbour's dad. Growing up we were always around each other's houses; one day I was visiting while his dad was giving himself a haircut in front of the bathroom mirror - being curious I stood watching him as he finished the job and once he was done he stripped and had a bath, with me right there in the bathroom! He is quite a short man, so I wasn't expecting anything spectacular; how wrong I was! To this day he remains the best endowed man I've ever seen in person. Many a teen fantasies were fueled by the eyeful I received that day.
So to answer your question, yes, I would probably sleep with my best friend's dad; only problem is that this many years later, he's obviously not as yummy anymore, but I whenever I see him I still remember the "talent" he possesses beneath his clothes...
2007-01-30 22:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Soren 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just remember, if you sleep with her dad you wont have to worry, because you will no longer be her friend, just an ex friend who treacherously let her down, someone who deceived her, someone who can never be trusted around her friends, and they will never drive you to swimming training again and everyone else will wonder why and with no doubt they all will find out what you did and none of them will want to be your friend. Anyway who says he will want to sleep with you, He may not be into sex with children, morally you sound to loose. You will only be 17 soon, go find someone your own age to do what you want to do, then you wont destroy other friendships and family's like you planning to do at the moment. Just think for a moment of the consequences of your actions, You will destoy her father/mother and the whole family structure and your friend also, you will destroy your and her friendship, no-one in the swimming club will want you there so will be kicked out of that club, and your parents will be ashamed of you, and your reputation will be "who that slut" do you want that?
2007-01-30 18:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you want true love then look the ther way on this occassion. More often than not this will be a case of mis-placed feelings and emotions. For the level of hurt (that won't go away long after your 'feelings' have) that this will cause it really is no worth it. If you have to be someone's puppy do it with someone not connected with those who love and support you.
2007-01-30 18:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by waggy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a good case of "look but don't touch". I'm not getting into whatever the age of consent is where you are, but I would hope that you know what it is. Even IF her dad is no longer with her mother, and is both gay and single, there's REALLY poor chances of any of that working out because it would be really weird for everyone.
I guess that sums up my answer: no I wouldn't.
2007-01-30 18:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Atropis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would truly be a bad idea.
First, the father would be up for statutory rape. I believe that does not need explaining. I believe he would also be charged with pedophilia. I am certain there are a few other sexual offenses he would be nailed with.
Second, why do you think the father is interested? If the father is a homophobe, you could be in big, big trouble. And if he is gay or bi, and is interested, how far do you think a relationship would go with a man old enough to be YOUR father?
Third, "dad's puppy'? What is that? Do you want to be a submissive sex toy?
Fourth, how do you think this is going to affect your female friend and your relationship with her? Do you think she is going to be comfortable that you are with her father?
2007-01-30 19:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by j 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well unfortunately there's the under age issue. although I bet that's the best part of the fantasy. also what if he doesn't swing that way? but hell even if you were a girl lusting over your friends dad, the friend usually gets mad. as for love, it totally sounds like lust. have fun with the fantasy because sometimes the real thing is a downer.
2007-01-30 17:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This might be bad advice from me, but if I were in your shoes, I totally would sleep with him... but I'll wait till I'm of legal age cos you don't wanna break the state law.
2007-01-30 18:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by xander 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a normal fantasy, but your friendship would be destroyed if you try to act on it, plus you said nothing about him paying any attention to you, and even if he did, it would land him in jail and destoy 2 famalies. fantasize all you want just keep it there. plus you'll find someone, be patient.
2007-01-30 17:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is fine to fantasize about things, but acting upon them is a different matter entirely.
If you ever think about how other people would feel, try to put yourself in their shoes, How would you feel if this happened to you.
2007-01-30 18:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋