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How old were you? Who were you with? Did you keep the baby? How are things now?

2007-01-30 16:40:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

34 answers

I was 19 the first time,and 20 the second time,yes I kept both children,and things are just fine now.Their father and I are still together,it was somewhat of a struggle at first being so young,w/ so much responsibility,now we are comfortable,happy and healthy.I wouldn't change a thing!

2007-01-30 16:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 2 0

Well this question touches alot of deep areas in my life. I was 18 when I got pregnant with my first child. I was with my high school sweet heart who I actually was with freshman through senior year in high school and then 2 1/2 years after high school. I did in fact keep the baby I think that god has a plan for everyone. You know my mother kept telling me I was to young to have a baby and that she thought I should get a abortion but there was no way that I was going to do that for many and all reasons. That baby which is my son Ian ( *E-y-a-n* ) is now 3 1/2 years old and the light of my life. I mentioned something to my mom about how she had wanted me to get an abortion and it made her cry, she said that there is no way she could imagine that little boy not being in our lives, neither could I he is the best. When it comes down to how are things now well I am no longer with my sons father I have not been with him in about 2 years and I am now getting married in Aug. to a friend of 8 years that I did not even see and we have a baby girl on the way. Life is really hard but great. My son has not talked to or seen his father in a year and a half. So that will show you no matter how you think a person is you never really know until they really need to be there. I dont know why you are asking these questions but I have to say that I hope if you are in a situation where you are pregnant and young and dont know if you should keep the baby or not. I will not tell you if you should or should not keep the baby because thats not my place. Just think about my story because you will wonder later. Good luck and best wishes with whatever is going on with you right now!

2007-01-30 17:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by DeborahUlloa 2 · 2 0

I had been with my boyfriend for a year, the second time we had sex I fell pregnant, no-one was really happy as my boyfriend was having some problems, so the timing wasnt right. Then they couldnt help but be excited. Then I lost the baby at 4 and a half pregnant. And it was horrifying but it brought our families closer together (our families dont like each other still)

I fell pregnant a few months later and gave birth to a healthy baby girl when I was 19. Yes I kept the baby. I fell pregnant again a after about a year and miscarried. Then a few months later fell pregnant again and gave birth to a beautiful baby girl at 21.

My boyfriend and I are still together (8 years) and although it hasn't been easy as we were so young, it has all been worth it to see our beautiful daughters smile and laugh and tell us they loves us.

2007-01-30 22:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by Monkey Magic 6 · 0 0

I was 19 when I got pregnant and 19 when i delivered. Im now just 20, my daughter is 5 months old.. I am still with the father of the baby, been together for 2 and a half years.. cant wait to get married!! and i have to say being a mom def isnt as hard as i thought it would be.. they do cost money let me tell ya, but in the end everything u do is completely worth it!!

2007-01-30 18:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Well to start off with, I met my husband when I was 19. Within 2 1/2 months we were married, Oct. 2000. I had just turned 20 and he was 32. I was on depoprovera until January of 2002 when we decided to go off of it cause we heard it could take 12-18 months to be able to conceive after that. Well, in May 2002, not even 6 months later, we were on vacation to the Grand Canyon and our Aaron was conceived. My beautiful boy was born Feb. 21, 2003. I conceived at 22 and had him at 23. I am now 28 weeks pregnant with his brother Jordan. Conceived on my hubbies birthday of all things. Conceived at 25, I am now 26. He is due April 16. We are very excited to be welcoming our second son soon. I feel very blessed to be the mother of 2 boys. What more could I want. Motherhood is the best thing that ever happened to me. Wouldn't change it for the world. I love being a mom. And me and daddy are doing great too!!!

2007-01-30 18:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by angie 4 · 1 0

Since I'm still pregnant everything that was at the time I got pregnant still is.

I am 19. I am with my boyfriend of a year. We are planning on keeping the baby and extremely excited. Things so far are going great.

2007-01-30 17:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by Dani 5 · 1 0

I was 31 when I got pregnant (had the baby 3 months ago at age 32). My husband and I had been together for 14 years before we decided to have a baby. We wanted to get our life in order first and I am glad we waited. Things are going great and my son is an absolute joy. We may have one more before we call our family complete.

2007-01-30 16:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by dancingdog1 3 · 3 0

I was 17 years old when I got pregnant. My boyfriend and i planned it so that our parents wouldn't say no. I got pregnant when I was 17 and my son was born when I turned 18. I turned 18 July 6 and he was born Aug. 28.

My husband and I were married for 21 years. We got divorced 7 years ago, mainly because we tried to stay together for the kids. If no kids had been involved we would've been divorced within the first 5 years I'm sure.

2007-01-30 17:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Karen H 5 · 1 0

I was 22 when I got pg with our first daughter. My hubby and I just got married (We were engaged after 25 days and married 9 months later!! It's working for us!) and started trying right away. I was 24 when we conceived our second daughter. And now I am 27 and am 35 weeks along with..... you guessed it.. our third daughter! We are still very much in love today and can't wait to grow old together. Our family is our top priority and we wouldn't change a thing - although my hubby would probably want to throw a boy in the mix!!! (poor guy is sooooo out-numbered but he loves it!!)

2007-01-30 16:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly M 3 · 2 0

I was 24 the first time I got pregnant, and 25 the second and third times I got pregnant (I miscarried the second pregnancy). I was married shortly after getting pregnant the first time. Of course I kept both babies, and things are going great.

2007-01-30 16:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy 4 · 1 0

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