Im really feeling my college roommate right now. When we first met I thought he was cute but I didnt say anything because im not out. He brought home girls every weekend to the room and he always asked me why wasn't I bringing anybody. I was gonna drop it but we got drunk one night and did some things... lets just say that we both nutted multiple times. The next morning he was no where to be found until that night and he says that he remembers nothing. He has been stone drunk before and woke up not remembering the night before. Should I say something or let it all play out?
2007-01-30 16:28:06 · 10 answers · asked by crazythug 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Count yourself lucky, because you may of had a night you will never have again with him. I wouldn't say a word about it, and see if he ever brings it up.
2007-01-30 16:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jay S 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Let it play out, either he does remember and won't admit it to himself let alone you, or he doesn't really remember, which I find hard to believe. Either way, he's not ready to face that reality and you are better off not pushing it. If I were you, I would forget about him and find someone else who is emotionally available. And don't come out to him, unless he shows signs of being able to handle it. I'm sorry, it sucks not being able to tell people who you are. But if you tell him now, it might cause more problems than it's worth. If he asks you again why you don't bring girls around just tell him you like to keep your private life seperate from your school life. I went to school stayed in a dorm, had a boyfriend and I never brought him to my dorm room. It was just too weird. My roommate always had her boyfriend stay over and it felt so awkward. So it's not unusual not to bring your gfs or bfs to your room.
2007-01-31 00:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A classic case of selective amnesia -- he remembers but doesn't want you to bring it up cos he probably feels guilty about what took place between you two the night before.
2007-01-31 02:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by xander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it that as two males, neither of You be taking any notice of what the girls have to say? Why advertise Your conquest? Do you really want Our opinions or are You just trying to get some feedback from the boys? Sort it out for Yourself, You are after all supposed to be at college.
2007-01-31 01:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave it alone. He might remember, he might not, don't push it. i could be dangerous. A lot of people do things they might be ashamed of while being drunk and if he doesn't bring it up then you shouldn't either. He might be embarassed by it so don't bring it up if you want to at least keep him as a friend
2007-01-31 01:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by b_mb3100 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ill give you some advice my hero gave too me....send yourself love letters, and flowers, and candy, just so he sees how desired you are, in case he didn't already know. And, anything you can do to draw attention to your mouth is good. Also, sometimes you have to show a little skin. This reminds guys of being naked, and then they think of sex- Cher Horowitz.....anyways he remembers!!!...don't bring it up let him come to you. Desperation killed the cat.
2007-01-31 04:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jungle Luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying... In drunkenness there is truth...
now that said. let him take the lead. It might be something that
he wanted to try and now that he has he does not know how to handle it.
Just be a friend and don't let him know about you because you need to be safe..
2007-01-31 01:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO, it was a one time thing for him
he's straight and nut with a guy once, happens a lot.....just an experiment...he got off......but has no desire for a relationship
guys is player, not a boyfriend or a regular sex bud
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2007-01-31 04:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh trust me.. he remembers. Just get drunk again and see if he "forgets".
2007-01-31 00:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he has selective memory...don't bring it up...he'll deny it anyway
2007-01-31 00:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋