Me and my girl sometimes discuss marriage. Well the other night she started crying because she thinks after 7 years, that I will never ask her to marry me and that all her friends got engagement rings for their birthday and she got a few things for me. She says that I am the one who isn't ready but I am, as I am a student and don't have a job, but as soon as I get a job we will get engaged. She says she won't believe it until she sees it.
What does this mean? She wants to get married?
2007-01-30 16:26:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well ofcourse she wants to get married if shes acting like this i was a little bit like her as well. women sometimes feel they need to be engaged to their BF because they feel the relationship is going somewhere and they are not just wasting their time and they want to take the relationship to another level
2007-01-30 16:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by cindy k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to marry you but she will be surprised if you actually pop the question and propose after all this time... Just do it and ask her soon is all i am saying! It does seem to me that you are not the one that is ready and she is as she is the one waiting her for the proposal from you! If you dont propose soon she may dump you though and move on is all i am saying if she does not feel or believe or feel you are serious... You can be engaged for now and give her the ring later.. That way it is official.. This does not take money just a proposal... Then you can get married someday.
2007-01-31 00:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are complicated... duh.
She wants to marry you, she even wants to stay with you. It doesn't sound like she has the intention to end it.
But she is a little frustrated. It's been seven years! Understandably, you don't have a secure job or future and you are trying to be responsible... and you've already communicated that to her. So?
I don't think it's really a question about whether she wants to get married... Sounds like she just wants a ring to show up to her friends, but it also will represent your intent to marry her eventually. After seven years, she just needs that reassurance.
If you want to make her happy, you know what to do. Just make sure it's what YOU want to do. Getting engaged isn't drastic when you don't have a job and you love her enough. The marrying part is. Reassure her of your love...
Unless you can't afford the ring.
Good luck!
2007-01-31 00:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ariel♥ish♥ness♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, why are you waiting that long to marry her? No wonder she feels like crying because she thinks that you are never going to ask her to marry. If you love her that much, you would give her a ring to make that commitment to her.
You can still get engaged while you are in school. You don't have to marry until you get out of school. Wow, just 7 years is such a long time!
Maybe you are not ready yet, otherwise you would have gotten her a ring and set a wedding date. And of course she wants to get married already, she's waited 7 years already!
2007-01-31 00:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very personal decision in my opinion. Marriage is extremely difficult. If you are not ready (meaning tought about it yourself) don't do it just because she is pressuring you into it. Trust me I have been there, done that.
By the way if the only thing holding your decision to marry is a job but you are ready for the commitment, you should just marry. If a woman is ready to marry you when you have nothing, she will stick with you through the tough times you are bound to face.
2007-01-31 00:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by lls7816 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, at present stage, she never wanted to marry you. But, yes, she wanted to get engaged with you, to give a new name of our relationship.
Infact, I support your concern as u r not having any job and that is top priority, but again, getting engaged is not a bad idea.
2007-01-31 00:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by sourabh_gupta2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As the expression goes.... "be a man and step up to the plate"... if that is what you truly want. Life has its ups and downs but if someone loves someone and is willing to spend the rest of their life's with you, then it doesn't matter if your broke or not. Matter of fact, you will see if see loves you when your broke. So when your rich, she can take you for everything you have... Lol.... just kidding. I hope it works out for you!
2007-01-31 00:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by I_am_pure_energy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she wants to get married. In her mind having a ring gives her security. So just make her feel secure and that ring wont matter anymore.
2007-01-31 00:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she is trying to keep up with her friends, and views marriage as a status symbol. If I were you I woul think a very long time about marrying her, since she will continue to compare her life to her friend's lives and whatever they and their future husbands do she will expect from you.
2007-01-31 01:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she like u bet u know that in this world so many things happened and so many girls was disappointed by engagement and ,she will think time is going and maybe she will miss some think wish she have 't enjoy ,and see and if she Mari now she miss some lives wish she have,t live.
2007-01-31 00:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by honey4life y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋