How to treat a sore......?

Question

After having anal sex, how can a woman get over the soreness in the anus? Suggestions please?

Answer 1

I've never had a problem with soreness but I would imagine that there is a topical ointment, A&D perhaps, that might help. The key to avoiding being sore isn't just to use lube, as some people say, or to never do anal. The real secret is to learn how to relax and enjoy it. If you're tense then all the lube in the world isn't going to help and you'll be sore afterwards. Before trying anal again try to practice relaxing and clenching your rectal muscles and you'll see that it makes all the difference in the world. It isn't for everyone but you deserve credit for trying.