the reactions i have gotten have for the most part been favorable and accepting. i am very passable and do not draw undue attention to myself. i have just always felt more comfortable as a woman. how would any of you feel if i worked with you what would your reaction be and why? please be respectful and if you cannot be then please just dont answer.
2007-01-30 16:16:26 · 10 answers · asked by ? 4 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Congragulations!!!! I would have no problem working with you at all,because i think its wonderful that you can finally be your true self. And best of luck to you always. Hugs
2007-01-30 16:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by snowlady 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Interesting question. You say you've a very passive person, and you demand only respectful answers. However, you obviously realize you're making yourself a target, especially when you bring it to work (instead of keeping it private).
Not everyone is going to be as accepting of what you're doing (nor should they have to be). Some may even attempt to make an issue about it, and you may suffer. You're going to need to choose what you enjoy more: being able to enjoy not drawing "undue attention" on yourself, or being a guy who puts on a dress in public.
You obviously can't have it both ways.
2007-01-30 17:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is a very interesting question. You say that " am very passable and do not draw undue attention to myself.' I take note of this because some men do a perfectly horrid job of it. They actually manage to make themselves look like a caricature of woman, and this (on a subconscious level, I think) REALLY gets my goat. It's almost mocking us! Real women in the real world do NOT dress in this declasse manner (certainly if they are educated with 'responsible' jobs). If you enjoy it -sorry BUT I WILL say it - and DON'T look like a fool, then who the hell cares?
2007-01-30 16:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
So that means your real name is Michael..but you added an "a" at the end to make it more feminine, for your feminine side..lol. And that means your avatar is you dressed up as a woman....so when you wanna change back to a guy, do you change your avatar too? Like back to a guy, then back to that girl one, and so on. This is interesting.
Sorry I'm just saying my thoughts out loud. And I don't mean to offend nobody!! I would just like to understand more about you "cross dressers" and why you do it. Thats all. Please fill me in, if you want. Thank you and good luck.
2007-01-30 16:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by *Beautiful Zephyr* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would not care all that much. but i think i am more tolerant than most as my aunt is a transexual, so i have been around this sort of thing pretty much my whole life. i am happy that you found the courage to come out, and i am glad that people have been accepting of you.
2007-01-30 16:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Minerva 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you say it's just how you like dressing, I'd probably just shrug it off and not give it a moment's notice. If you say it's a part of your psychology, I'd probably think you're just trying to play the Sympathy Card.
2007-01-30 16:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would have no problem with you coming out at work. I would be a little curious and perhaps a little envious. I would love to be that brave and self confident. Congradulations. Hold your head high.
2007-01-30 16:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by Bulldogmdz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So essentially you are a gay man who dresses as a woman? If I had to work with you,and you never offered to put anything in my butt,we could be cool.
2007-01-30 19:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh alot of people are an don't even know it so doll up
2007-01-30 16:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by yessy yes no 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asked this again yesterday.
2007-01-30 17:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋