Guys that publically shower, do you size up the other guys to see if their penis is bigger than yours? Is this normal, cause I know it's definitly not cool.
2007-01-30 16:15:30 · 9 answers · asked by rrs0090 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
it is normal because the nature of males,any males is competitions, so penis size is a field for competition,so every one try compare to feel winner
2007-01-30 21:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Males, adolescents through adults do this. Most of the time it's a quick glance and that's it. Stares are unwelcome though. Most of the time, men dressing and showering in a public place respect each others privacy.
Teenage boys may sometimes do this because they are curious as to how they size up compared to their male classmates -- or even adult males that might happen to be in a public locker room or shower (like at the YMCA).
I think all of this only becomes a problem when the person developes a habit of prolonged staring at people. When he does this, sooner or later, others will take notice and nobody wants that kind of reputation, especially in school.
But back to your main question -- all males do this at some point in their lives and most probably continue to do it into adulthood. It is part of being a man -- something we try avoid doing to others but at the same time, try not to overreact when we know someone is taking a good look at us. And no, it is not necessarily a "gay" thing (quite frankly, I think most men who do this are not bi or gay at all). And realize too that men size up each other all of the time: physiques, hairiness, height, weight (too much, not enough), athletic ability, etc. Think of this as not something sexual but more related to competition.
Just remember that a quick glance is okay but don't stare at a fellow in a shower or locker room setting. And at the same time, don't overreact when someone takes a look at you -- if they take the time to do so, you must have something they admire in a man and might wish they had!
2007-01-31 02:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A lot of guys check out each other. Some out of curiosity, others out of lust for a penis. Just because you look doesn't mean you are gay. Gay is a lifestyle not just a look at a dude. But if you're to cool to look just believe it when I say their are others checking you out when you are showering. If you're phobic, makes you want to stop taking public showers.
2007-01-31 01:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah I think all men do. It's really not a big deal. You shouldn't have big issues with your p3nis. It's just like any other part of my body. guys compare everything, there is nothing extra special about comparing a p3nis. I don't mind guys looking as much as I don't mind guys looking at my nose. as long as they don't touch. might be different for gay guys cause they may see it as more than just an appendage on another man.
2007-01-31 04:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mike S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have never done it personally but my girl who is a friend said that her friend told her that they do it in the army. They do all kinds of stuff in the army from what i've heard. Well think about it, they have no women
2007-01-31 01:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this day and time. the only reason i do look is to make sure what i/m standing there beside of .male .female. and other.
2007-01-31 20:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. im big guys actually compliment me. no harm as long they dont touch
2007-01-31 09:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by jimmy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most everyone does, but don't stare
2007-01-31 11:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for curiosity yes, I think most men do
2007-01-31 02:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋