You might want to read a story of when love was most certainly a choice - but if your circumstance is different I'd like to hear that too!
My story can be found at http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/135104/love_is_a_choice.html
2007-01-30 16:10:28 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would have to say love is a matter of choice. Many may not believe me. Well, we may not like someone but we can make a conscious effort to see them in a positive way. We may still not like to see them in certain manner but we can choose to love one another and its so much easier to deal with.
Love can also be something we fall into as we think there's something there that can develop. So it work both ways. But it's definitely a matter of choice.
2007-01-30 17:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me its not a choice..love is feelings, love coming from your heart..before your Brain choose this person..your heart and soul choose him, without asking you..you will feel something to him..that will let you know if you loved him or not..Love is more than Choices or falling in to..Love is the whole new life for you..
If you Choose him , that's mean you choose the person to protect you , or the person who you will spend your life with him..But in fact you cant..there is God,and God who is the one who will give you A clue to decide to choose him or not..
When you see him..did you notice the special feeling that comes to you ( did you choose that)
When you look at his eye..did you notice how this will take you a special world (did you choose that)
when he is sleeping with you..did you notice how much the security he gave..(did you choose that)
when he is speaking with did you notice how much this cool for you..(did you choose that)..
all these are clue from your heart or soul....
This is only for my opinion..
2007-01-31 00:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by not now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love anit no choice like you can't choose to like somebody. its something you fall into something special you feel inside when you thinking of him or her and when you with them
2007-02-05 21:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Yesenia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to Fall in To, unless your forced. you cant make yourself love someone.
2007-01-31 00:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is choice in a way.... but on my case it's not... it just came on to me like a robber... hahah. you'll never know...
2007-01-31 00:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by chrstn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋