sex...does that make him a selfish lover?
2007-01-30 16:03:30 · 13 answers · asked by bashfullyblessed 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Honestly, I'd probably be a bit annoyed. Maybe it doesn't make him selfish exactly, but you'd think your pleasure would be important to him. He probably shows that in other ways. A lot of people on here seem to be thinking he should be sainted for buying condoms, which is kind of sad. That is something any responsible adult should do. It's common sense not a noble deed. They do have a good point about it dulling the sensation for him though, and it may be a way to get some of that back. Seriously though, how irritating of people to say that you're lucky he even wears them. A "sacrifice?" Good lord. What the heck kind of relationships are people in? Anyway, good luck.
2007-01-30 19:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend satisfies you despite using the condom inside out, then I say he is not selfish at all. In fact his use of a condom is already a sacrifice for his part. Most men would not want to use a condom because it is too tight and dulls the sensation. I think he inverts the condom so that he could have some sensation on his part. Imagine yourself feeling your boyfriends body using a pair of plastic gloves? It does not feel good. And it is rare to find a boyfriend who is responsible enough to use a condom to protect you from being pregnant or getting unwanted diseases.
2007-01-31 03:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its no excuse, but i am always told guys do lose a lot of sensation with a condom on, so maybe this is his way of still feeling sensations.
but maybe ask him once if they can be used the right way - and see if he is willing - if so then naw hes not selfish, but a good lover cares about your needs too. :) and you should care about his too - if you still have pleasure with them inside out - then who cares - but if you dont - - you should speak up.
2007-01-31 00:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it makes him very confused maybe. Or maybe hes questioning his gender. Or just maybe he likes the feel of them that way. I really don't know what to make of it. Why not ask him about it? You might find out something interesting from him, about himself. Goodluck.
2007-01-31 00:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by artistguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Selfish is if he makes you buy the condoms... Count yourself lucky...
2007-01-31 00:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by DontPanic 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats very odd, but for sure he does not want you to experience that pleasure. may be he is concerned that it might not be true and save you some unforeseen trouble
2007-01-31 01:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by adjd j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u get yours? If not then yes he's selfish, if so....next question
2007-01-31 01:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by b_mb3100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a doubt!
2007-01-31 00:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would he do that? Yes, it sounds selfish
2007-01-31 03:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by xander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your boyfriend please you in other ways? If not then yes he is a selfish lover.
2007-01-31 00:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋