do all guys like a good spanking once in awhile?? and how should i try it out
2007-01-30 15:00:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think i would let my wife try this on me as it might be fun LOL... As long as it is not too hard:) I like to try new a fun things with my wife and she does too! This keeps marriage and life fun and interesting and you dont get bored this way so go for it and try it:) Make sure to ask him first though! Also ask him if there is something he would like to try to do with and for you??? Maybe he would like to try spanking you too! Never know until you ask.
2007-01-30 15:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband has hinted that he wants to play around with Dom/Sub roles a bit, here's some suggestions.
Part of the fun is in the "equipment;" meaning that in classic BDSM, the dominant women wear basic black. Most anything will do; you don't have to invest in expensive leather or PVC. You have any black hose & garters? Black heels? Black bra? That'll do just fine.
Of course, you could have fun and take a trip to the local adult store for a special paddle or something; it's up to you.
Anyway, next find a suitable object to spank him with, unless you just want to use your hand.
Nylon kitchen spatulas work rather nicely. They won't hurt him, they have a nice "action" and they make a sweet slapping sound on a person's butt.
The whole deal is, you're not really trying to hurt him, just create the illusion of a little "dominance."
Give him some "orders."
Make him "beg" for something.
Role playing can be a lot of fun, and it's totally harmless and normal. Lots of people enjoy it.
2007-01-31 07:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a gurl thought id stop by and see the answers wow thats like hardcore spanking right there huh lol
2007-01-30 23:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah why not.......a spanking would be nice once in awhile. Try it once gently and see what reaction you get. You'll know from there
2007-01-30 23:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband might be open to this lol... He is fun like that... Just do it gently and have fun and ask him if it is okay to do so:)
2007-01-30 23:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES WE DO! BARE ON THE CHEEKS WITH A 10 POUND METAL SPIKE STEAMING HOT CHAIN BALL.
2007-01-30 23:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would rather give than recieve.
2007-01-31 05:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Bill I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out with a massage...
2007-01-30 23:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by Zawa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you can count me out on this one.
2007-01-30 23:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋