ok, so my two BEST friends got into thie GINORMOUS fight. Now i tried to help them both for quite some time. Then it was too much too handle. so i tried to step out of the situation. When i did do that, one of my friends got REALLY mad at me because i became uninvolved and they thought i was scared. but i honestly only backed out because i had problems of my own to deal with. And now she stopped being my friend because of it and i truly feel alone. i kno i shouldnt have gotten into it in the first place, but idk what do to about my friend or how i should proceed... PLEASE help!
2007-01-30 14:57:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i tried telling her exactly y i backed out. I told her that i had a ton of things on my mind. I also told her that i just cant not b her enemies's friend because they seriously hurt u. I told her that i wanna b both of their friends but she just wont let me...
2007-01-31 09:04:13 · update #1
Explain to your friends that you care about both of them & that the reason that you do not get in between the their arguments anymore is b.c. you are on both of their sides,and that just b.c. they are not getting along doesn't mean you should take anyone's sides.Tell them that no matter what you will be there for both of them but the beef is between them not you and them.If they are true friends they will understand
2007-01-30 15:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, if my best friend butted out and I got bent outta shape, I'd also wanna know why.
Now if I were to get a letter from her explaining why, I'm sure my heart would melt and we'd be back on course again.
But, that's me!
2007-01-30 23:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by MJ D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋