After getting caught cheating, he is trying to make me buy him expensive gifts in order to forgive me. He said that he will not be with me until I buy him these things. Is he trying to use me now? Can some libra men help please or women who have dealt with libra men?
2007-01-30 14:53:29 · 32 answers · asked by deljuana1 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I am a Libra & trust me "WE ARE SNEAKY AND WILL STOOP TO NOTHING TO GET WHAT WE WANT"!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm not proud but it is a fact....................Make him wait, he will hate that and probably give up or if he hangs in there he might be serious but always keep your eye on him. JUST GOOD ADVISE
2007-01-30 14:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-18 20:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be doing this to you to prove something but it could be he is going to make you pay for cheating on him, and when he gets what he wants it does not mean you have gotten him back.
Libra's like justice, it could be that he sees your giving him gifts as a just punishment, but whether or not that means he will take you back is up in the air, if you knew his birth time and place you could know more about his moon or rising sign, which could help determine his behavior.
As a Libra myself I would be highly suspicious of his demand for expensive gifts, I am a woman not a man but as Libra, I would say that giving in to his demands for expensive gifts won't get him back, Libras tend talk things to death, poke and prod an issue over and over again.
But it could also mean he knows something about you, that if you do buy this expensive gifts that from you it is a sign of commitment.
Look at yourself, is this a sign of commitment from you? Have you placed emphasis on expensive things during your relationship with him? If not then there is a real chance you need to walk away. It is just a getting his sense of justice of getting at you.
2007-01-31 07:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by nowment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think his asking for gifts means that he wants to patch things up, he is just trying to find a way to justify to himself accepting the way you treated him. Libra is the scales you know, he wants to even the relationship off. His next thing might be to say, "oh you cheated on me once so now I get to cheat on you once."
Put it this way - you have to do something to make it up to him but making up to him won't necessarily mean he forgives you, it will just make it possible for him to consider forgiving you. He won't make the decision til things are balanced off in his mind, and he may still decide against continuing the relationship. Furthermore. if you give him the gifts he's asking for, he may think you're only doing it because he pressured you and it doesn't really count and he will still be looking for something more.
Or he might be using you, which would only be fair given you appear to be using him. Ironically, if this is how he perceives the situation, the relationship might work because you are treating each other evenly. It's all about the balance.
2007-01-30 16:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by duckofdarkness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Libra, and the gifts don't matter- that's just him using you. Woman to woman- don't be a sucker.
Trust in a relationship must be earned. You screwed up (pun?), and he is "punishing" you for hurting him.
This is totally up to you.
a) he's worth it (I disagree), so go ahead and buy the stuff he's asking for. Maybe you'll get him back, maybe he'll decide you have no self-respect, and ditch you anyway...
b) you see him for the user he seems to be, dump his sorry a--
2007-01-30 15:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does being a Libra have to do with the fact that he just wants you to buy him stuff? You can buy all the things on his list and he still won't take you back!!!! That's what you get for being a cheater though!!!!
2007-01-30 14:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by The_Game 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can definitely buy a Libra!
But do you really want to?
Take the high road, you may have done the wrong thing and cheated but now he is being a w@nker. Run and run fast!
2007-01-30 15:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kylie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not libra, but personally, I think he's just trying to take advantage of you. If he's wants personal items to make up with you, are you guys really even close?
2007-01-30 14:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by I'm scary looking! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL you don't deserve him, sorry but cheating is for suckers!
Okay really, I wouldn't buy him crap, he very well could be trying to just mess with you and once he's got what he wants . . .he may just push you aside. In all honesty I wouldn't blame him, but to be fair if you have to buy his love why would you want it? Even if you got back together where's the trust?
2007-01-30 14:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
this has nothing to do with Libra, he just feels he's in control of the situation, and he's taking advantage. If you give in now he'll own you forever, but obviously you're capable of finding another man.
2007-01-30 14:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by yeraluzer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's using you. He has no intention of being around to be either cheated on or dumped. It's over, save your cash!
2007-01-30 15:03:04 · answer #11 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋