Would it be a sin for a woman to fornicate with others aside from her soulmate? Most would like to have both but for the sake of arguments on population, seems like they could not and gays and lesbian prosper on it. so, what is marriage in the eyes of God?
And last but not the least, what matter to you most, married to the one you have bows with or to the one you lost your virginity with?
Marriage by virginity under the grace of God in a so called ignoramus people and their fornication outside their bond is not adultery but just a casual sex but by the ordained of the Priest, marriage will make fornication outside the ordainance of God after the marriage of a couple with Priest blessings will make it an adultery then?
Reminder... I have five (5) questions in here. If you wish, you could elaborate your answers.
2007-01-30 14:40:57 · 12 answers · asked by wacky_racer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey, don't crucify me, people! Let Moses reign the world if you want, just don't crucify me on this!
2007-01-31 01:58:15 · update #1
To Lisa E... the word 'is' is supposed to be 'in'... sorry.
2007-02-01 16:35:00 · update #2
To all, ... is someone among you a Roman Catholic?... anyway, Peace.
2007-02-01 16:36:37 · update #3
You make a vow to commit to your marriage partner, but the Bible states also that you are one with the person you slept with, and the Bible even gives the example that a man can be one with a prostitute, if he chooses to sleep with her.
2007-01-30 14:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even though you have 5 questions, you are mainly focused on sex, or the act of having sexual relations. Whether you do it with one partner or various, it will depend on the cultural environment in which the person was brought up. Fornication is simply to have sexual relations (penetration) before marriage. I believe (I said I believe) marriage in the eyes of God is the union of 2 souls that share the same spirit and respect....not just simple "love."
It would matter to me the one that I truly care for. Also, why marry someone you don't really care about??? It's not a monarchy, so that shouldn't even happen. But if it does, then I guess live your life the way it may please you. I would care more about the one that I am married because my life with him is a simple adventure. There are no limitations in our sexual life and/or the way we view life experiences. Also, "marriage by virginity" is a fantasy. Nobody should be that bonded to the person they lost the virginity to. Losing the virginity might just be an experience, especially in the American and European cultures. Caring is the most important part.
2007-01-30 14:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can anyone call it marriage if they lost their virginity in their 'fornication'? No. That's silly. I lost my virginity on a one night stand. Do I regret it? Not one bit! Infact, I'm glad it was that way. Was it marriage? Hell no! I didn't even bother to learn his last name and cut him off when he tried to contact me later.
Would it be a sin for a woman to fornicate with others aside from her soulmate? Uhm, not unless it's sin for a man to do these things. Personally, I think the whole concept of sin is bunk. If you want to talk about whether or not it's immoral, we'd have to talk about the situation that such 'fornication' occured.
Hmm, I don't understand your next point. What is marriage in the eyes of god? Well, as an agnostic I cannot answer this question. Now, my family is a bunch of religious nuts and they would believe marriage to be something like a commitment made in church infront of everyone. Church is social control. God is the excuse.
Which matters more? Marriage to the one I love and can be commited to. Both my partner and I have lost our virginities to other people and have had multiple sexual partners. It doesn't matter and people who think it does matter are a bit loopy. I don't think sex is this sacred thing and I don't fall for the social control. Sex just a physical act. Love is entirely different from sex, but sex with love is awesome. I do think that loveless sex was a valuable experience. While Christians pride themselves on being blind to the world (wasn't the original sin eating the fruit of knowledge?), I'm not that big of a fan of ignorance. I've learned a lot and don't agree with the sexist abstinence only training that the church provides. Whatever gets you through life though. Enjoy!
2007-01-30 14:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have, for the longest time believed that any act of intercourse is a marriage in the eyes of God. And that the intended, righteous procedure was for both the male and female to be virtuous upon their first union and to remain an exclusive sex partner with that individual for life. However, as the Bible states no one is righteous, and all have fallen. Including me.
In the eyes of God if an individual was not a virgin (male or female) and had intercourse with a virgin, they have commited adultry and had caused the virgin to sin. Anyone who has intercourse with one other than their first is in sin.
2007-01-30 15:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by ThinkaboutThis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it all depends on YOUR beliefs!!
some think "God" is the reason you cant have sex before marriage. my personal opinion...if someone had sex before their soulmate came along..thats in the past. i mean you cant blame someone for living their own life. sex is ones own decision. no one else's. adultery is only when the person is married and then cheats..if someone is with someone and is still having sex with other people, thats not love. the priest is there to give you blessings. they dont have to know anything you dont want them to know. its none of their business. even though it would be nice to meet someone who is still "pure" but now a days, there are very few...you marry who you love the most and want the most.
sorry, my answers seem weird. i hope it helped.
good luck
2007-01-30 14:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage by virginity under the grace of God is a so called ignoramus people?
When you figure out what you're actually trying to say, maybe the rest of us will, too.
2007-01-30 14:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Religion is open to interpretation.
If you want to marry a virgin, then do so. Personal preference.
If the person you fall for isn't a virgin, that doesn't make him/her a bad person. They are just human.
Religion sets up restrictions and regulations than even those that preach it can't abide by it.
2007-01-30 14:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you do nor have 5 questions, you have a mess of word that make absolutely no sense what so ever, perhaps the person who is translating this in to ENGLISH is not familiar with the language
2007-01-30 14:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your question actually makes no sense to me?
Ever tried asking one QUESTION at a time?.. with grammar so that the question can be read and understood properly
TIME WASTER
2007-01-30 14:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just deal with things, if she's a good lay go for it and stop worrying about things you cant do anything about. You questions are very anal and stupid at best.
2007-01-30 18:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋