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So i have this friend who got mad at me bcuz she thought i was trying to piss her off and because she thought i told her to shut up, but i really told her to "CALM DOWN" when she freaked out because she broke something. She thought i was just not liking her or something and was trying to piss her off. So she goes off and tells the two people i didn't want to know who i liked who i liked. She basically tells a whole bunch of people who i like just because i pissed her off because of the fact that she didn't hear me correctly. But even if i did tell her to shut up, she didn't have to take it this far. She knew that i didn't want the two people that i know she told to know about whom i liked. But she did it anyway, to get back at me?

2007-01-30 14:39:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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Yea, u should.

Making up with her shouldn't be that hard anyway. Just approach her like nothing happened, sit down and talk about stuff. Eventually, tell her that you forgive her for what happened and that you're alright with her. Since you ASKED whether or not you should make up, I believe your mature enough to handle this responsibly. It takes heart to be concerned about a friendship after something like this, so you definitely have enuf heart to forgive what your friend did.

As far as the people who she went off and blabbed to, just be chill and talk and hang out with them as if nothing happened. Don't worry about them knowing about it and if they ever ask to confirm just give them the "maybe, so what?" argument. If it goes so far that the people you like find out, take the initiative get to know them. You don't have to act as though you have the intent of going out with them. Just be genuine and make friends.

You've got heart (and I think you have guts too), so just relax and be mature about it.

2007-01-31 11:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey C 5 · 1 0

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