i need help. abortion?

Question

i know its not a good thing but im WAY too young and im not ready to have a baby! i heard that herbal abortion would work but im not sure. are there any kind of pills i can take that would get rid of it?

Answer 1

The only "natural" abortions that you may run across on the Internet are very dangerous to not only your health, but will probably not work either.

The only pill (Mifeprex and Cytotec) you can take must be administered by a professional, and if can only be taken if you're under ~60 days pregnant.

Call your local Planned Parenthood or women's clinic and talk to a nurse or other staff there. They can help you get the help you need.

Look in the phone book under "abortion" and call the closest one.

Here is some more information about the pill, and abortion in general:

http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_92.asp
http://www.hopeclinic.com/AbortionPill.htm
http://www.fwhc.org/abortion/abpill-compare-surgical.htm
http://www.prochoice.org

Good luck!

(And don't let anyone's anti-choice rants against you feel bad. It's your body and you know what's best for yourself and your situation. This isn't an easy decision, and you are quite brave to consider this option.)

Answer 2

Please find a Crisis Pregnancy Center in your area (see link below). They offer free over-the-counter pregnancy tests and many offer free sonograms. They are a better alternative than "Planned Parenthood" which is a group that is financially INVESTED in making sure that you choose abortion. They are very successful at this because they purposefully hide information about your baby’s development and don’t offer sonograms so that you can see your baby. They tell you abortion is “routine” and that it is a “minor procedure”, but then when you are hurting emotionally afterwards, they tell you you’ll just “get over it”.

Did you know that most abortionists don’t even do a sonogram first to find out how far along the baby is? They just take the mother’s word for it as to how many weeks gestation she is, and they start the abortion anyway. Many women find out that they miscalculated and are further along than they thought, sometimes into the second trimester. This happened to me. I thought I was 12 weeks, but after the abortionist finished, he nonchalantly told me “sorry it took so long…your baby was a bit further along than 12 weeks.” I was so shocked that I couldn’t say anything. I couldn’t even bring myself to ask how far along the baby was. If they had done their due diligence, they should have found that out, informed me, and let me make my choice based on the facts. As it was, they just decided to go forth anyway and inform me in passing. It still sickens me to this day.

Crisis Pregnancy Centers truly offer information about ALL alternative choices for a pregnant woman, and then they back it up by actually providing FREE help with any of those alternatives; referrals to government agencies for help, as well as private non-profits and individuals who selflessly give help and support to women having a difficult time dealing with an unplanned pregnancy. After the birth, they also provide free baby clothes, formula, diapers, wipes, nursery furniture, counseling services, parenting classes, and too many other things to mention here. The women who work there are largely volunteers whose goals are to HELP women and children, not to lead them down the path of heartbreak and guilt that inevitably follows abortion. They truly care about BOTH the baby AND the mother.

God bless.

http://www.pregnancycenters.org/advantage.asp

Answer 3

Get rid of "it" You mean the baby..............Those pills will just cause birth defects, and harm your body. Having an abortion will harm you body as well. If you really want to get one, so to a doctor. You could give the baby up for adoption. My cousin had a baby when she was 14. She is now 28, and her life turned out good. She is married and happy.( not married to that guy) It will be what you make of it. This is something you will have to have in your head forever. I am not trying to be a beyach, just trying to make sure you know it all before you make your choices. I wont tell you to not have sex, or use birth control. I am sure now you will be safer.

Answer 4

Be careful with your body, one day you may want a baby and what you do now can jepordize your fertility in the future. If you have an ob, I would suggest calling them in the AM and asking for the morning after pill or an alternative. DO NOT try anything you read on the internet, a lot of people lie what to do for the fun of it. If you need free ob services, contact your health department.

Good luck to you sweetie and be careful. I won't lecture you, but just remember that one day it will be "right" and what you do now could affect that! Take care!

Answer 5

There is no way in this world anyone on this site can tell you what is best for you other than you need to see a doctor. I understand your reasons and while I may or may not agree you could harm yourself or your body in a way that may make it difficult for you to have children when you are ready. You are already going through some tough things and the last thing would be to tell your parents or a doctor, it really doesnt seem like things can be harder for you.

Answer 6

What Planned Parenthood won't tell you are the consequences after an abortion. Several friends of mine, and my sister, have had abortions. Yes, it is your body and the laws now let you do it if you want. It is a life, no matter how the PP press spins it. If you are too young for a baby, you are too young to be having sex, but since that's past, please consider the consequences of ending your baby's life: a deep wound from which you must heal; possible sterility and trouble bearing children (several of my friends have experienced this, although one did have a son), not to mention a terrible memory which cannot be erased. PLEASE find out the truth; not from an abortuary like Planned Parenthood, but from places like www.browardrighttolife.org. There are people who can help you bring your baby to term and then find a home for him or her. Our church has bought several houses for the express purpose of housing pregnant girls/women and helping them during this period. Please reach out to someone who will not assist in ending the pregnancy, but in the process of giving birth. You won't have to raise the child if you don't want to, and you won't regret it. An abortion, you will regret.

Answer 7

You say get rid of it. You can give the child a chance at life instead of killing it. if you have an abortion your chances of miscarriage, uterine rupture, and sterility increase a lot. You were responsible enough to have sex but now you want to take a selfish way out? Look at what you wrote. the child you conceived didn't make you have sex. http://www.abortionfacts.com think about your choice before you do it. Most women regret having an abortion, and a lot get pregnant again with in 6 months of having one. My cousin had one and she is now sterile. She got pregnant with her daughter 2 months after her abortion and was lucky that she didn't lose her. She can't carry children because of scarring.

Answer 8

Do not contact a the crisis couseling centers, go to planned parenthood and planned parenthood only. There are a number of centers that pass themselves off as crisis counseling for women who seek abortions, but are simply prolife and will present you with some very graphic and in some cases wrong information.

Go to planned parenthood, they will give you an UNBIASED perspective.

Answer 9

Get a home pregnancy test.
Take it.

Then after you know the results can you start to freak out.

And by the way, there are no herbal or pills that you can take to "get rid of it."

Get checked, then review the possible alternatives with your DOCTOR.

Answer 10

Look, you may be very young, but won't you be sad knowing you killed a baby before it was even born? Contact your doctor to talk more. I'm REALLY young, so I've never had this problem. Anyway, instead of aborting the baby, you could put it up for adoption. Won't that be easier? Thanks and good luck.