My wife and i seperated in may she started dateing someone in october then right after xmas told me she wanted me back she came down to my house for 2 weeks then left saying she felt uncomfortable being with me. How do i get her back what is she thinking
2007-01-30 14:13:06 · 9 answers · asked by wolftv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok I get that she is very confused so how do i get her back
2007-01-30 14:22:19 · update #1
she is going with me to counseling now well we went last week and souposed to go this week but she took my son to his house tonight I dont get it
2007-01-30 14:24:19 · update #2
Her fling in Oct didn't end well and she needed comfort....that was you...now she's ready to go and try again...You need to go and try again too, if she comes back again you need to put your foot down and tell her you can't do this, she needs to go and grow up and find herself, and her happiness. When she does that, and if she discovers that maybe you were the one after all, call, maybe you'll be free again too....
2007-01-30 14:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have separated to give something a try.
When that didnt please her, she figured she'd go back to you.
However, now she's guilty about the 'try'. I would ask yourself, if you have any curiosity about the time you were separated.
If not, then look into some combined marriage counseling.
Good luck!
2007-01-30 14:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want her back? Do you have kids? If you don't have kids, let her go and stop worrying. Even if you do have kids, you can't make her come back, but if you have no kids, you're better off moving on, learning from all of this, and finding somebody better.
2007-01-30 14:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are wasting your time. Even if she comes back, who is to say she wont do this over and over?? Dont you want some stabilty in your life??
2007-01-30 14:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is thinking a lot she is confused,maybe there is something she likes about the new guy but she jus cant let u go, she is surely confused and doesnt know what she wants
2007-01-30 14:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by lovely me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is going on in your head??
Hopefully there are no kids involved.
2007-01-30 14:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was using you on the rebound. Let it go... move on
2007-01-30 14:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by sparrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE JUST WANTS MULTIPLE DI%k SHE IS NOT GETTING ENOUGH ID SAY YOU RUN BEFORE YOU CATCH HERPES AND YOUR WINNER FALLS OFF.
2007-01-30 14:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds confused... i suggest marriage therapy
2007-01-30 14:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋