Well the other day my hubby said to me his freind didn't want to come over because he was "afraid" of me. Well what it is is that one day his freind and him were here and they smelled like pot and i sort of flipped out. I think my hubby only does dumb things when he is around his freinds who pressure him...and he denied it but i threw a fit in front of his freind and now he says he doesn't want to come over...
And his other freinds may not want to come over either because i am a ***** sometimes...i think if someone is a guest in your house they should act that way and if they don't i get pissed...
So it concerns me that they may not like me...and because of that would they try to convince him to be "bad" while out. Or secretely talk smack about me when i am not around or even smart *** coments to him about me...
It is ok for them to not like me or should i say something to hubby about not being freind with them any more...?
2007-01-30 14:06:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As long as U & hubby R happy to hell with what his pals think. Do not let his friends mess up Ur marriage. Ur together for life friends come & go. U should talk 2 him & be honest. Open conversation is a must in a relation ship. Hope this helps or gives U something 2 think about.
2007-02-01 03:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Blues Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smoking pot is not a big deal, and it's not worth arguing over. Read about it at www.norml.org or www.jackherer.com
Trust me, I'd rather my husband smoke pot than drink.
I don't like all of my husbands friends, but he's a grown up and he can choose his friends. As long as they respect that he's not going to strip clubs with them or whatever than I'm fine with it. We have a good relationship now.
2007-02-01 23:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋