What do i do!!???

Question

Well im having a party this saturday, and my mom being a mom HAD to tell me to give invitations to everyone in my class, to be nice.
so i did, *this was a week ago* and theres this girl named gina who 60% of the class say they dont like her cause shes stuck up and alll that, etc. especially two of my close friends ashley* Very close friend* and amanda. Well amanda and gina dont likle eacother much and one day amanda told me Dude you didnt invite gina did you?! * i was scared and i said, n-no. then we went home. but this week especially today gina has been teling me * i cant wait for your party or thanks for the invite, and amanda and ashley keep telling me if shes not invited then tell her or amanda to ashley: we should be bodyguards and kick her out!. I dont know what to do i dont like gina that much either, but i dont want to hurt her feelings, *thats why i gotta a reputation of being very smart and nice* but i dont want to let my friends get mad.
WHAT SHOULD I DO!

and please dont answer with * find new friends cause i wont their really awesome, and ashleys in a really tight spot now and she needs a sholder to cry on * see my question what should i do on my page*

Answer 1

Uh...It seems to me that you've got a very complex situation on your hands there. If I were you, I would simply tell your friends (as nicely as possible), Ashley and Amanda that they can deal with the torture for one afternoon. It's not the end of the world, and if they get mad, talk it out with them. I also would recommend trying to joke about the "dealing with the torture". It's sounds like the opportunity for a joke to me, and it might lighten the tension.

Answer 2

I say invite the girl. She obviously can't be that stuck up if she is looking forward to going to a party most of her class is also going to. I would also tell your friends, Ashley and Amanda, that you are trying to be nice to Gina, and want everyone to get along. If they have a problem with that, tell them they don't have to talk to her, but everyone can go to the party and have a lot of fun.

Answer 3

i think it is sad that this girl you all think is "stuck up" is going to get hurt by you all. if she really were the girl you thought she was then she wouldnt be wanting to come to your party now would she? it is likely you all mistook her wrong and that she wasnt actually acting like "she's all that" but rather she was thinking you looked down on her..... this is why your party means so much to her. she actually thinks you all are going to give her a chance.

i think it is time you let your other friends know that she is coming and that you want to give her a chance. let them know that you want them to come to your party but that you'd like them to forget what they think about her for 1 night and give her a chance because no one likes to be accused of being someone they arent.

can you imagine what it would feel like if someone judged you without even trying to get to know you first.

YOUR MOM IS RIGHT.. to treat this girl like this is very much the same as being a BULLY. good thing you are smart because i have yet to meet nice bullies.

Answer 4

Tell them they have to deal with Ginas prescence for one afternoon and if they were true friends they would be nice and keep their comments to themselves

Answer 5

Its your day enjoy. Invite whoever the hell you want and if people don't like it they can leave. your true friends will stay and make your party the best.

Answer 6

simple. if their your true friends, they'll support you no matter what you do or who you invite to a party.
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Answer 7

wow