see iam 12 and it's this boy name dar that i have been know for 3year.We then been thow lie and all.he want to have sex but i dont know because i dont think it's real and some time i do.
shouldi have sex with he or not
2007-01-30 13:52:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
please don't....i was 14 when I lost my virginity and wish now that i had waited...wait till you know the time is right...and you will know
2007-01-30 13:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by tanks_girl02 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that having sex with your friend would be a good idea. Even if you have known him for 3 years you probably do not know him on that kind of personal level. If you do have sex that may leave you both feeling strange around each other and in the long run you may lose a great friendship. Obviously you are also very very young. You have such a big future and so many great guys to meet. Do not settle on one at this time in your life. If you two are truly meant for each other you can both wait a few more years. Lastly, no protection is 100% and there is a chance that you could become pregnant. That is commitment for the rest of your life and may not only effect you career plans for the future but even your friends and family. Give it some more time angel...do not rush into anything that you are not 100% sure about.
2007-01-30 22:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn1113 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HECK NO!!! You're 12??? All you have to do is come to my high school and you'll find out why. One day I was waiting to get picked up (I had detention) and I saw this pregnant girl who couldn't have been older than 15. About 2 months later, she had to stop coming to school because she had her baby. DAR won't be the one suffering the consequences and if he really "loved" you he would respect you if you told him you didn't want to. If you don't think it's real then its probably not. And I know chris brown , young love and all that, but he was what 15 or 16 when he wrote that. You guys are TOO young and you're too young to mess up your life. Say no!
2007-01-31 06:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by <Me> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you what I would tell my little sister if she asked. Sex is a big step, no matter how old you are and it is not something you should do unless you are absolutely sure that you are ready for it. In my opinion, twelve is just too young to engage in a sexual relationship. It changes things in a way that would be complicated even for someone who is say, in their 20's.The fact that you're asking opinions from other people suggests that you aren't ready for that step. There are too many potential risks: emotional, physical, etc. When you decide to take that step, you should be as prepared as possible to accept the consequences and I can't say that I think any 12 year old is ready for the responsibility that comes with sex. Whatever you decide to do, I hope you think about it very carefully.
Good luck.
2007-01-31 00:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sleepy85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets see how in love you really are....
how many guys have you dated?... are you sure this is the feeling is love?.. maybe this is the first time you had someone like this... so you THINK it is love. when its really not.
it seems to me like this guy is pressuring you... it may not seem like it... but i think so.
your only 12 years old. your still a child. if you start having sex NOW... im not kidding, but you'd probably end up pregnant by the age of 14 or 15.
like me for example, me ex boyfriend and me were going out for nine months..... the thing i never knew was that he had a gf from the first day i ever met him. he was so sweet, which made me fall harder every time. and it was his smile that got me the most. he would lie to me, but i would always forgive him, he would just make me melt..... until i finally found out about his other girlfriend of 2 years. i had ALMOST lost my virginity with him about a week before. im so glad i didnt.
he seemed like the best thing in the world.
no i see him as nothing, but a mistake.
basically what im trying to say. you think your in love... love blinds you, and it can be very painful. its not worth it.
2007-01-30 23:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by =] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never have sex until you are married or well over 21 years old!!!!
you should respect yourself by not having it & you will be real proud of yourself when you grow up because you made a very good choice in life
the boy is only trying to use you & then he will dump you or only be with you when he wants it
make a good choice & be proud
ps you should not ask these questions on here because all the world can see your question & a lot of freaks will try & get you to email them etc DON"T talk to your MUM or DAD
2007-01-30 22:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all having sex at your age is wrong...u should be playing with barbies not thinking about having sex with some guy...and no u r not in love...u r not capable of THAT kind of love at your age...and no matter what he tells u, he doesn't love u, he is just trying to get u to have sex...and remember u can get pregnant your 1st time and there is also things like STDs, AIDS, and HIV to worry about...PLZ< PLZ< PLZ dont have sex....u r not ready for something like this at the age of 12...i really hope u listen to this hun
2007-01-31 02:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by eyesopen16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa.......................... You're only 12 - you're still a child and you have no idea in the world what love is! No one should have sex until they are at least 18. You need to be mature enough to understand everything before you go off and do something so extremely stupid!
With that being said; the first thing you should do is learn how to spell and use grammar properly! Focus on your education and stay away from boys!
I will give your credit for one thing; you do not want to have sex - good for you, but seriously, please please leave the love and sex thing alone until you're old enough to understand it all.
2007-01-31 02:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not have sex now. I cant even imagine having sex at that age. I had my first time when I was 16, and I was so surprised how much it changed me then. 12 is way too young. At least wait until you are 15.
2007-01-31 01:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie but at 12 your neither your body or your mind are ready for sex. You need to concentrate on school and not boys you have plenty of time for that after you get marrieds plus there are many stds that can make you sick or even kill you look up www.afraidtoask.com the side links will show you stds like aids clymidia, herpesect................. you will not even think about it after seeing that plus honey at your age you are still trying to leqrn to love yourself cherish your body if you dont then no one else will
2007-01-30 23:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by lovewhereilive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't have sex with this boy, your 12, you have your entire life ahead of you, i lost my virginity at 16, im 23 now and i regret not waiting longer, besides that if it doesn't work out, how will you feel then, nothing is forever when your 12 it may feel like love, but when your older you'll realize what that really feels like! DON"T HAVE SEX! PLEASE! If he truely loves you like you say you love him he would understand that your not ready any time soon, and if he doesn't he was never right for you.
2007-01-30 22:12:14 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Novak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋