ok I have always said I was bi because since I was like 6 I have been attracted to girls. I am dating a girl... but I have dated guys andhad sex with them but never orgasmed not even once... sex kinda felt like a chore. Then I got with my gf and we had "sex" and I orgasmed the very first time. I was wondering does this make me a lesbian?
2007-01-30 13:41:39 · 45 answers · asked by lucy i 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if this dosnt make you lesbian.... what does it make you?
2007-01-30 13:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, how old are you now? Sorry for my question, but I was wondering since you said that you were attracted to girls since you were 6 years old, and also you said that you did had sex with guys; so how old were you, and how old were those guys you say you had sex with? Did you mean to say that you had sex at six? Never mind, I hope not. If you got sex at age pass 14 then I would say that you got the wrong guy the very first time you did it. I bet you, if you had a guy like myself (not bragging) you would had has not one orgasms, but several of them, I bet on that. Sorry I am just honest. Now about been lesbian, my answer to you should be sufficient.
2007-01-30 14:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by FlowMaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. But then I am prejudiced. I never dated a guy but the first time I had sex with a girl I orgasmed the first time.
2007-01-30 13:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jimfix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was sitting in a bar when a woman came in and asked if it was my horse tied up outside. I said it was and she asked if I was a cowboy. She could see that I had a cowboy hat, cowboy jeans, cowboy boots and I told her I had a few head of cattle so I guessed that made me a cowboy.
I asked her, "How 'bout yourself?" She said that she was a lesbian and went on to explain that when she woke up in the morning all she could think of was making love to women, at noon she looked at women in restaurants and after work she tried to meet and seduce women.
After she finished her drink and left, a guy came in and asked about the same thing, is it your horse and are you a cowboy.
I told the guy that I though I was a cowboy until a few minutes ago but now I know I'm a lesbian.
2007-01-30 13:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by valcus43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a bi sexual but prefer sex with girls better. When you no longer find guys attractive then you can call yourself a lesbian.
2007-01-30 13:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're having sex with a girl makes you at least bi.
2007-01-30 13:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is determined by who you orgasm with. Not all girls orgasm until they get older or until they have children. I think it's more of where your heart is and what makes you happy, not just the sex.
2007-01-30 13:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by Nette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a bisexual, a straight only have sex with the opposite, a homosexual have sex with the same. You fall in between. Orgasm don't count.
2007-01-30 13:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Just because you've dated guys doesn't mean you have a natural attraction to them. Even if you find them somewhat intriguing, it does not necessarily mean you're bi. Most gay people will tell you that their sexual preference is just that--a preference, not a rule.
2007-01-30 13:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are, and because you haven't been with a man who knows how to have sex, you haven't really reached an orgasm yet.
2007-01-30 13:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by ottowilcken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you orgasm with a girl ,does not make you lesbian ,it just makes you BI if you still can sleep with man ,you just been unlucky with choice's ,nobody ever took the time or cared for you enough to please you in that matter.I masturbate often and make myself have an orgasm ,does that make me selfish ,you dam right YES
2007-01-30 13:49:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋