my bf mark cheated on her and left her for an old gf 6yrs ago.this happened way befor i even met mark.i have been dating mark for 4 yrs and plan on getting married next yr.she consently talks poorly of me to my future in-laws,bf and anyone who listens.she has told my bf she does not want me to be involved with thier 8yr old child as i'm not his family.i know she still has feelings for my bf but why can't she get over it?he cheated on her why would she want him back?i told him right off the bat cheat on me and your gone.
2007-01-30 13:26:00 · 7 answers · asked by joyce8suhjry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's bitter because she still has feelings for him...plain & simple.
The real question is why are you considering marrying a man who cheated on his wife? That should be your MOST IMMEDIATE concern.
2007-01-30 13:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of that's style of organic for her to unlike you, distinctly if she does have thoughts on your bf. If she will't recover from him yet, then she will't. no longer something absolutely everyone can say or do will circulate her previous it. do no longer enable it situation you. you're with him, no longer her. If she would not want you around the infant, then you quite could admire that. And, only a word of advice to bear in ideas... If he cheated on her, he's able to cheating on you. that does no longer advise he will, in spite of the undeniable fact that it's not out of the question. many times somebody who's untrue will repeat this habit. So only save it in ideas.
2016-11-23 15:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably hates you for the same reason my ex's new wife hates me. She is Jealous! Not because of who you are but what she wanted with her ex and didn't have. Mine and I have 2 kiddos and it is hard for her to even think that he was married before her. Best thing I can say is just leave her alone, it fades and it passes altogether if you just stay level headed.
Good Luck!
2007-01-30 13:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by Breezey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not bitter towards you, she is extremely jealous of your new relationship with her ex! He left her and has a son by her but that is it. She should get over it and move on, and out of his life!
Don't let her see you sweat, and just be yourself around his parents, so that they will see you for who you are, and not what they have been told by her.
Don't worry about what she has to say, and discuss this with your fiance, hopefully, he is defending your position to his parents when (she) speaks negatively of you. Know this, he loves you and wants to marry you! He chose not to marry her.
So focus on your happy future together and do not let her sabotage your relationship in anyway.
Good luck in your relationship and future marriage...
P.S. And discuss with your boyfriend about her using her son as an excuse to see him. She can bring his son to your in-laws!!!
2007-01-30 13:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by cherrypopsickle2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My x beat me and cheated on me, and it really pissed me off to see some woman in the house that I lived in happy and going on trips and him spending the time with her that he never spent with me.
Sorry, we don't mean to be that way, it just is hard to get over that much hurt.
2007-01-30 13:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on his ex-wife with whom he had a child with and your concerned about HER behavior??
I wouldnt put up with it and it is HIS fault if it continues.
2007-01-30 13:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she sees that Mark is really happy and it just ticks her off.
2007-01-30 13:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Tish 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋