Hi everybody and thanks for helping me!!
My friend and me used to get closer several times...when it happened it was something very special, beautiful. But particularly from the last time we got closer he became very distant.. I told him I felt so sensitive with him and asked why he was distant. he said" I don't want to go any further cause I don't want to mess it up"
We saw each other again, with friends.. nothing happened but he always keeps an eye on me..when I notice it he looks down.. Last time my friends wanted to talk with my contacts on my computer, I didn't agree but he was behind me, he hold my hands for a long time, I felt that strange... Now he jokes with me again...kindly.. but it was long time since he last joked with me! And yesterday I went to a party and he asked me "how was it?" What did you do after it ?""what time did you go back home?"
According to you what does it means? Is he trying to give me a sign? How can I do? I want him!
PS: he's single, but soooo shy!
2007-01-30 12:59:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Beware, He was trying to tell you he didn't want to ruin a friendship and in guy-talk that means he isn't really ready for a girlfriend but he thinks he is attracted to you. You could get hurt. He obviously cares about you and doesn't want to hurt you. If you continue you will be really hurt. Back off and find another guy who is ready to be a boyfriend, keep this guy as your friend, he seems to really be a great guy friend.
2007-01-30 13:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by katie d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, seems like there is a lot of drama over minutia . . .
I have to ask, how old are you guys ?
(so we can give an appropriate response)
2007-01-30 21:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋