we have been having sex for around 6 mths already... we tried last month & he said that supposedly i wasnt wet & when he tried to go in he i guess ripped his penis & started to bleed... & now he might get circumcision... ive been doing research & supposedly not having the foreskin removed is ok... & better for him... what should he do?? & anyone know why he started to bleed???
2007-01-30 12:56:11 · 7 answers · asked by natg08 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
i really dont care if its better sex or not... i just want what is best for him... i dont care how it looks... all i care is about him & his health... so what else do yall recommend?? thanks for the advice everyone...
2007-01-31 13:05:31 · update #1
circumcision is unnecessary.try foreskin stretching.
2007-01-30 21:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here is a study that shows that men contimplating circumcision should be warned of possible loss of sensitivity before they can give informed consent for surgery.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query...
Exerpts from the report:
Masood S, Patel HR, Himpson RC, Palmer JH, Mufti GR, Sheriff MK.
OBJECTIVES: Currently no consensus exists about the role of the foreskin or the effect circumcision has on penile sensitivity and overall sexual satisfaction. Our study assesses the effect of circumcision on sexually active men and the relative impact this may have on informed consent prior to surgery.
Penile sensation improved after circumcision in 38% (p = 0.01) but got worse in 18%, with the remainder having no change. Overall satisfaction was 61%.
CONCLUSIONS: Penile sensitivity had variable outcomes after circumcision. The poor outcome of circumcision considered by overall satisfaction rates suggests that when we circumcise men, these outcome data should be discussed during the informed consent process. 2005 S. Karger AG, Basel
One out of five men circumcised suffers loss of sensitivity and one out of three is not satisfied with the results, these are not very good odds. This damage is also likely when babies are circumcised but the problems will not be apparent for many years.
I would point out that while this study shows that adult men should be warned of the possibility of sensitivity loss before they can give "informed consent" to circumcision, there is no way that a newborn boy can give his informed consent to an elective procedure that has a greater than 1 in 5 chance of leaving him with an impaired sex-life.
His body. His choice.
2007-01-31 21:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by cut50yearsago 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does NOT have to get a circumcision, UNLESS told by a doctor. People say its better to get one for "health benefits" but I don't think this is a valid excuse. Supposedly its easier to clean, and there is less risk of infections, or germs stuck in the foreskin. But as long as you wash everyday, and take care of yourself, there should be no problem. But for lazy people like me, I'm glad I was circumcised. Less work for me. Take, or tell him to go to the doctor to see if he had ripped anything. The doctor will tell you if he needs a circumcision. Good nite.
2007-01-30 23:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not having his foreskin removed is NOT "ok" and it is certainly NOT "Better for him" neither is it better for you! Your boyfriend should just go and have a circumcision. Afterwards he will have better hygiene, comfort, appearance to you, self-esteem and both of you will find that you experience FAR better sensations during sex. There are simply no disadvantages to circumcision and all men should be circumcised.
2007-01-31 03:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
find a foreskin freindly doctor, there are alternatives to a snip job.
the main web site is [ nocirc.org - or try noharm .org these are very good resources for the presevation pof the foreskin.
2007-01-31 05:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by larry f 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
His foreskin probably tore. he needs to get circumcised if it's that tight
2007-01-31 11:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He needs to consult a urologist
2007-01-31 09:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by jonnyraven 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋