does anyone out there know how it feels to be celibate and no man want you because of it?

Question

I chose not have sex intil i get married and a man finds out he runs because there are so many women that have been giving in to men and make it hard on those of us who wish not to do so. That why I have been celibate for 13 years men dont' try to take time to know before they want to go to bed with you. It sickening because there are more things to life than just sex and i guess i'll just die an old maid because what society has done to our men

i posted this in the wrong place i'm a straight women

Answer 1

i am a 33 yr old male virgin and i totally appreciate women that want to wait for marriage..

now, you don't actually say whether or not you are a virgin or if you changed your values from having sex as a teen and then stopped later in life.. if you are under the "changed your values" catagory, then guys may consider you confused and unsure of yourself..

personally, i am saving my virginity for marriage and i hope to find a woman who is doing the same.. no offense to women who have been sexually active in their past, but it just makes me feel very uncomfortable..

but, bottom line, not all men want sex.. sounds like you are just looking for love in the wrong places.. try to find outlets, either online, or out there in the world, where you can meet others who share your values..

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to do it. My mother (rest her soul) taught me that if you did have sex before marriage then they wouldn't respect you in after that and why should then marry a woman to get it when as soon as she lands on her back her legs fly open. I have never done it and I probably never will do it, and you all I am proud of it! =))

Answer 3

either you are a man, in which case you can't get married and thus can never have sex and that's why everyone runs away, or you are a woman and have posted this question in the wrong section.

Answer 4

Difficult choice to be celibate...I can almost guarantee that you won't find a celibate man out there.....even if he respects "your" wishes, it's likely he will find sex with others even while dating you...