1 time me and hubby didnt have sex for 2 months(he didnt intiate AT ALL)well anyways after 2 months i got fed up and kept asking him what was going on and he kept saying "nothing" he started getting really mad and started screaming,yelling and slamming doors..Im wondering if he got so defensive cause he was getting sick of being questioned and me not believing him..he also said he couldnt give me a reason for no sex for 2 months..I dont know what was going on those 2 months BUT i know he wasnt cheating cause he is a good man,a great husband and wouldnt hurt me like that plus the only time we are not together is when he is working( lol and dont say at work cause he is sooo busy there). This was a yr ago..should i try and get to the bottom of this or just forget the past. We have been happily married 16 yrs and everything is back to normal.
2007-01-30 12:23:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i do intitate sex most of the time(but he has been intiating it more lately) however something happened in between those 2 months that made me not intiate sex with him.
2007-01-30 12:39:28 · update #1
nicki u dont know what ur talking about.. i know the man u dont and i know he WASNT cheating.
2007-01-30 13:02:16 · update #2
well julesrule u dont know my husband I DO and i know he would never cheat on me and he was probably getting mad at me questioning him and not believing him when he kept saying "nothing was going on"
2007-01-30 15:23:58 · update #3
Let it go. If all is well, as you say, then it's unlikely that anything was wrong and you would only be making him feel mistrusted. Sounds like you are having trouble in the trust department.
Give him the benefit of the doubt and let it go once and for all. If he has given you no reason to mistrust than you are not being loving with this stuff. Leave the past in the past.
2007-01-30 12:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you initiate it and call him into the bedroom wearing a negligee? Maybe he was fed up with trying to judge your moods and catch you on a good day for sex, and was hoping you'd take the lead. If you know he's no cheating, know he's a good man and it's been a year-- forget it! Go put on something sexy and call him. It's 50% your job too.
2007-01-30 12:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets all be honest and stop all this he may have had stress give him a chance. NO, he had met someone else man or woman was having affair, thought it over are they left him and then he went back to mama., old reliable mama. You know good and well that he wasn't;t just stressed out, no not stressed out he was stretched out in bed with someone else. Tell her the truth don't try to butter it up. MAM , he was having a affair and better watch close he'll do it again. So watch out their coming and he will follow.
2007-01-30 12:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget the past and let it go.. Let bygones be bygones and you will be better for it. He may just have been going through a sexual low point in his life that time.... When we were flooded out of our home last year and my husband was stressed the sex died for a bit... Stress can do this... There are highs and lows in life . This is very okay and normal.
2007-01-30 12:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 04:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by killeen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a little more time. Insure that everything really is back to normal. Another 6 months to a year. Then, if you are still curious, absolutely ... ask again. If he loves you, he will want to share this with you. But he still may be too close time-wise to be ready to just yet.
2007-01-30 12:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take off the "rose-colored" glasses and see what's right in front of you. The man IS cheating!
I know what I'm sayin' cuz I got the same reaction once!
There's no other explanation for the RAGE, and his reaction shows this, he's been doin' somethin' and is feeling guilty, why else is he touchy?????????????
Anyway, YES, get to the bottom of this mess!
BTW---sorry to be BLUNT, but, I know about reactions, and guilt stands out real big!
Hope you will be ok!
2007-01-30 14:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husbands have difficult time understanding their wives and this gets frustrating sometimes thus causing him to loose interest in sexual activities, it happens from time to time. Seldom lasts longer than 4 to 6 weeks then they become like polar bears!!
2007-01-30 12:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is going thru a mid life crisis or a weak spot in his sex life if u know what I mean. Maybe he can't seem to get things going? He may too embarassed to talk to you.
2007-01-30 12:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say let it go and move on,, you said he is a wonderful husband and youve been married for 16 years ,, so maybe it was just a stressful time in his life .. but if everything is fine now then just forget about it .....
2007-01-30 12:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋