Do you care how the girl looks or whats inside?Whould you still marry him or her? Will you still devote your whole life to them? the point im trying to make is would you still love that person even if they aren't that good looking?
2007-01-30 11:54:08 · 7 answers · asked by Shyshy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
even if i dont find someone that attractive once i get 2 know them and they have agreat personality they become attractive in every way
2007-01-30 12:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by bobbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. Appearance has some bearing on initial attraction, but looks fade, and then you're stuck with the personality. It's the character of partners in a relationship that determines if it's a healthy relationship, so you've got to be a good, well adjusted person if you want to attract good partners.
2007-01-30 20:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people are initally physically attracted to one another.
If a relationship starts out as a friendship, you have a better chance of falling in love for the insides, rather than the outsides.
By being friends 1st, you really get to know on another better and it can be a much deeper relationship than an instant physical attraction.
2007-01-30 20:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Fired Up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people are initially attracted to the physical part of a person, but what is in the inside is what really counts and that is what they fall in love with. Looks fade as we grow older and people realize inner beauty is more important.
2007-01-30 20:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that we're first attracted to a persons looks, and then we want to get to know them. but I have met great looking guys who had terrible personalities, and that's a total turn off no matter how good they may look. and I've met guys who weren't so great looking to me, who had great personalities.
we all need to realize that we get older, and that good looks fade. so we need to have something more to fall back on in life than good looks!
I think my husband looks good and has a good personality too. but the part of him that I'm most attracted to is what's on the inside. he's a great person, and that's what matters to me.
Best Wishes!
2007-01-30 20:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats inside because you can find a great person whit a normal body
2007-01-30 19:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by skyeric07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends i try and go for both
2007-01-30 19:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Alex D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋