Before I start, please no one judge me. I am married and I met this other man, who is also married. Both me and this other man where having problems with our marriage. We became very close friends, on night while we were hanging out, we kissed, and from then on we could not be seperated. Well, it has been a year down the road. I am seperated from my husband. This other man wants to be with me, but he has a seven year old son. He loves his son to death. He is staying with his wife for there son. He wants to tell her everything, but she threatens to leave the state. Anyways here comes the fate part, we have tried to brake things of many times, everytime we break things off we end up running into each other. We met at the weirdest places, like on the road, or a gas station or somewhere we would never be at. This has happened multiple times. We leave in a big city too. Is this fate? Are we suppose to be together? Are we destined for each other? Please help me.
2007-01-30 11:50:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm going through the same thing. We haven't been intimate. You didn't mention if you have been. There's a reason why I am asking. If you have had sex then it's likely things may not work because what started badly ends badly. I hope in your case it does work because I feel your pain. If you haven't had sex then you need to ask yourself if you are willing to "wait" and put your life on hold for this man who has already told you in a sense that he's not leaving. If you want him in your life that way and if you are ok with that then go for it. You will know when you need to leave. Do I believe in fate, destiny and true love? I recognize that fate can bring two people together, but in the end BOTH need to decide your destiny. If it really is true love, you will be together somehow. email me if you want to chat.
2007-01-30 15:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in true love because I have found it. I believe in fate because my life has become not what I wanted, but what I needed. I still do not know my destiny. I don't know why things work out the way they do, but I can tell you that things work out. That is, if you try.
2016-03-28 21:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, hon, there ain't no such thing as Fate, Destiny, yadayda.... in a sentence, you are being used..... and he ain't leaving his family for you.... If he is unhappy at home an affair is the "Bridge" out of the marriage, but the "bridge" is rarely, again RARELY the one he'll end up with.... WhY???? Because the relationship was built on a lie, deceit and betrayal, it has the chance of a snowball in hell of surviving very long...... sorry sweetie...
2007-01-30 12:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to believe in those things and I can see why you want to think that. I think you make your own fate and destiny. You should decide what you really want and go for that. As for true love... if it was true love wouldn't he put you first?
2007-01-30 12:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by SophieJulien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to believe in fate, destiny and true love. Now I know that none of that exists. Life is what you make it.
2007-01-30 12:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by x98lbwuss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it isn't fate. You need to move on. Right now he is getting the best of both worlds...two women. Any mans dream. Leave him, leave town and move on.
2007-01-30 12:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by froggiebutterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a story... look I don't believe that the "universe" means for you two to be together... but that doesn't mean that you two aren't right for each other either... question is, can you two make it work some how?
2007-01-30 12:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were destined for eachother he would have left his wife.....let go you deserve better....Yes I believe in it but not in your case.
2007-01-30 11:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by KDB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you guys and where else did you meet?
2007-01-30 12:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are JUST the other woman- otherwise he would have left her
2007-01-30 12:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋