2007-01-30 11:49:24 · 14 answers · asked by avril h 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we mean right now
2007-01-30 11:51:53 · update #1
just love each other as if its your first time, like a virgin, email me tomorrow an tell me if it was brill, i wanna know!!!!
2007-01-30 12:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by qwerty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sarah Green, If your relationship is in a rut then the last thing, in all honesty, the two of you want to have is a threesome. From personal experience having a threesome is nothing like television or porno movies. Having a threesomes involves the managing the interaction of feelings against the need to preserve the relationship. This means at a time when you are vulnerable, like a rut where you feel the need to spice things up, a threesome may play on those vulnerabilities. The risk, playing on your vulnerabilities, can come in different forms. One possibility may be the person that you select may be aware, from the way the two of you interact, that there are some relationship issues. A good threesome candidate would say 'no' due it because of the issues and not wanting to be pulled into it. Whereas someone who is a bit less scrupulous may see it as a prime opportunity where they can exploit the situation so that they can get as much sex as possible. Another way could be the person you select is not compatible. Compatible in a threesome sense means someone that you can remain emotionally detached from but still enjoy the sex. Under this type of scenario you may choose someone who may develop feelings. With that said the above discusses theoretical possibilities of what could happen in a threesome situation when a couple wants to spice up their relationship. However when I read your question my concern about risks is increased due to the fact your question reads as though neither your husband or you have any idea what you are doing. Probably your last choice to ask is a neighbor, friend, coworker, or escort / prostitute due to the risks involved. Therefore my advice to you is do some reading on the subject. There are some good books from Amazon that you can buy. Also there are some good sites on the web that has information. Many of the sites are free, many have forums where you can ask others questions and some have articles written by various people. Three sites I would recommend would be swing lifestyle, swingers board, and literotica's - how to section. For me, I believe if a relationship is stagnate a threesome will not fix. In order to fix I believe the two of you need to find a way to reconnect first and then consider if having a threesome is the right choice for you. Once you have done some research on the topic I would then recommend discussing the subject again in light of what you have discovered, then from there decide. If you done your research, have talked about it, and still want to have a threesome then I would be happy to talk about how to approach someone. However I do not believe you are not at that point, yet. Remember once you have a threesome, you cannot undo that decision and it is better to enter having it with an understanding of what to expect than with unrealistic expectations. Finally from my experience it is better to take your time to talk through the idea then to rush into it believing that having a threesome is a panacea for a relationship that is lack some spice.
2016-03-28 21:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends on what you have done before. If you're used to doing it same time every night, then do it at random times when you least expect it. Girl: Get some sexy underwear and put it on after you shower to suprise him, if he always expects to see you in towel. Boy: ask her to join you in the shower.
Get some toys together, and some seperately so your partner does not know what you have. Blindfold partner and use toys.
The trick here is changing the routine, does not have to be anything wildly exciting. Think about what made it good at the beginning.
2007-01-31 04:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a swingers party
for right now though
Blw-job with ice-cubes
Hot candle wax poured over each other (sounds awful but Oh My God)
It'll just naturally get wild after these steps so strap yourself in and take a deep breath!
2007-01-30 11:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice massage with baby oil at 40.
KY Jelly at 50
My wife suggests a splint at 60!
2007-01-30 11:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by dawleymouse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be naughty at home. Let the lady use less dress material while dressing and excite and ignite people around her. And the man secretly follow her and feel the itching in mens eyes. Try this and come back again.
2007-01-30 14:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by ndeepuachari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role playing adds a bit of spice....little red riding hoods a good one...he plays the mean old wolf...no laughing allowed
2007-01-30 11:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by Susie2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in shape
look attractive for each other
be sexually adventurous
be spontaneous
remain committed
buy a GIGANTIC diildo
I would stay away from porn, mainly because after watching porn your man will imagine he is screwing the girl he saw in the video. Also, it will open the possibility of your man suggesting other partners.
2007-01-30 12:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about the sex for now talk about it, about everything what you both want what turns you both on what you both might like to do etc talk now then next time it will be fantastic.
2007-01-30 13:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by HelsWigsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whipped cream and chocolate sauce
2007-01-30 12:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by pooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋