I made this question because it hurts me, my son is dead because the mother don't didn't want him and killed him, i'm crying my heart out thinking about him or her and i just want ppl to know that i don't support abortion and tell ur childs to do the right thing if that happens to them in the future and for the ppl that are going through this plz, don't abort, plz don't do it, my child is dead and i'm crying cuz it hurts, u will too if u let abortion goes on, God help us....think about it plz and don't let abortion ruin the life of an inocent child.
2007-01-30 11:39:45 · 25 answers · asked by Cocaine 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
hey, i said him cuz i wanted a lil dude, and my name cocaine is because my car is white and that is the best name i would think of for it, did u know that my car was my life till i knew my girl was pregnant, i sold it and started saving money for my baby and now all i know is that she did abortion and didn't say anything about it, i don't know where she is or a way can reach her and that's why i cou;dn't stop her
2007-01-30 11:54:36 · update #1
do u guys know what they do to abort a child, do u know how is it? just google it and u will c, it is like a movie terror and worse, it is like dying in a war when there is non around, it is sick!!!
2007-01-30 11:58:42 · update #2
Laughing Libra,why be so mean to this guy? He is mourning the loss of his child. Have a heart for goodness sakes. In a age where so many men callously tell women to "get rid of it" when they find out their girlfriends are pregnant...here is one who is devastated that his girlfriend did. Doesn't he have a right to grieve? Women are always like..it's her body..she can do what she wants...well...she WANTED to have sex...and her unborn baby pays for what is a logical consequence to having sex. If women didn't have to carry babies..if we became advanced enough to have artificial wombs for gestation...what would you say if a man wanted to fight for a pregnancy that a woman wanted to terminate? I think a lot of people would say...it's his baby too and he has a right to fight for it's life. I am sorry for your loss. Hopefully you will not be in a situation like this again and will use birth control until are married and have made a mutual decision with your wife to have a baby.
2007-01-30 12:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 10⤊ 1⤋
You may not get the answer that you are looking for. Each person has their own opinion on the subject!
The law does permit abortion!
Right or wrong, Moral or unjust, IT is the woman’s right to choose. My suggestion to you is if you do not like the laws, become an advocate to try and change them. But you will have an up hill battle on this one.
You state only of your hurt, what about her, she will live with this decision for the rest of her life, she will suffer not only physical but emotionally as well. What is her current situation! This is a choice that is not made lightly and there must be circumstance that she felt she could not overcome. Did you ever talk to her, where you prepared to marry her and help with the burden of raising a child?
You asked a second question, do you like living?, well ask a homeless person just how great life is, talk to the unwanted child that is abused and neglected and lives on the street and eats out of garbage cans for they can find no other meal nor person who loves and cares for them. The world is full of neglected, malnourished and abused children, Where is your voice for the living? learn from this bad experience and try and change things for the better of all society. Start by practicing SAFE SEX.
2007-01-30 12:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋
i grew to become into against abortion for the LONGEST time yet you be attentive to what..i replaced my innovations. think of roughly it..what if the mum is on drugs or she does not want the baby or she's too youthful and is gong to grant it up for abortin besides. Do u be attentive to how they take care of babies in adoption properties? Very undesirable..its rather unhappy. as quickly as the baby gets 18 they deliver them out in the international with no longer something and that they haven't any mom and dad or family contributors that they be attentive to approximately. They cant circulate to college via fact they haven't any funds. they're left all on my own. Its a bad subject. So now...i dont think of abortion is all that undesirable
2016-09-28 05:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by guyden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know besides abortion there is adoption but sometimes people just can't carry a baby for 9 months and not get attached to it . I mean I just feel that's in possible because feeling the movement of your baby and his or her heart beat is like winning the lottery its the best thing you can imagine but what some people like in your case don't understand is that some people just cant do adoption so they do abortion and I'm sure they have a very good enough reason to all though abortion shouldn't be consider birth control because then that will a different story when it comes to that that is what gets me mad about abortions because if women know they can get pregnant and don't want to use a condom then that is just plain wrong because if they don't want to get pregnant then hey there is abstinence and birth control pills and condoms so in that case i don't think it is right but other than that its like people have to do what they feel if gona help them go somewhere in life and people who want to keep their baby then more power to them so we as the people cant judge anyone else other than or selves because when they day comes they will face God and take it from there so sorry about your situation but next time if want to have a baby make sure you do your research and make sure the girl your with wants to have a baby ok. Because like we all say it is easier said then done.
2007-01-30 12:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 4⤋
First I would like to say how sorry I am that you are going through this.I believe that only God has the right to take a life.A baby is not a burden or a mistake,a baby is a gift.What you need to know is that this is not your fault,the blame for this murder is not on you.The mother(and I use this term loosely with women like this)of this child will have to live with what she did,and when judgment day comes she will have to face your son and tell him why she thought he was not worth keeping.You can take comfort though in knowing that your son is with God and is in no pain.He could be in no better hands than those of Jesus and his Angels. I don't know you but I will keep you in my prayers.And yes,I do think that all abortion should be illegal.
2007-01-30 11:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by kipp 2 · 8⤊ 3⤋
I have no idear what I feel on this subject I would never get a abortion but I sometimes understand why other people do have abortions. There are many different reasons. some are not good reasons but some are and if I was put in there shoes mayby that would be the only option. I don't know
2007-01-30 11:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by amanda B 2 · 5⤊ 3⤋
I think they should only be allowed an abortion if the father does not want the child or there is something life threatening . I believe a woman should have the right to choose. But she can not get pregnant on her own. Even with in vitro you need a man for sperm. It's the truth of the matter. If a man does not want the child it is the womans choice. If there is someone who would love the child then do not. It's my opinion. Most women however do not have supportive boyfriends or husbands in most cases. Every person has their opinion but I could not ever kill my unborn because I feel him/her changing every day.I do not criticize people because they have done something like this. It hurts me to see a father who does care enough to have to go through that, but there are so many who do not. I think if there is involvement in that childs life abortion should be illegal and only through legal signing of the father and mother abortion should not be allowed. It's my opinion and my belief.
13 weeks and 3 days pregnant
2007-01-30 11:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 2⤊ 8⤋
I agree with you completely..I have googled pregnancy related topics such as what my baby looks like right now (currently pregnant) and it will bring up abortion photos at times...The other day I saw this site that showed babies who were aborted up until 22 weeks and i couldnt believe my eyes...u could literally see the fully developed baby lying there helpless with such sad looks on there faces..it made me cry so hard,,i couldnt stand to look anymore..i got so pissed at every woman that day who has had an abortion,and i really dont care for what reasons...its horrible and inhumane...cruel torture....its so sad and im sorry for what happened to you =(
this is what i saw,,u people can take a look at each week and see these poor little babies,how could u people agree wih this,if u arent ashamed then look http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.headscarf.net/08WK_04.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.headscarf.net/index.php%3Foption%3Dcom_content%26task%3Dblogcategory%26id%3D14%26Itemid%3D26&h=364&w=450&sz=60&hl=en&start=15&tbnid=WiLvNWmGjnVR5M:&tbnh=103&tbnw=127&prev=/images%3Fq%3D8%2Bweek%2Bfetus%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN
2007-01-30 13:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
I feel your pain, but here is the thing.
Yes the law should permit abortion? There are lots of girls that do not want their father, brother, uncle,or baby from being raped.
NO it is not fair to kill an innocent baby...but is it far that boys force girls into sex when they are not ready...NO it is not fair.
I like living, but I do not like having to pay for all the programs for pregnant teens. I am sure i could live lots better with I had that money.
Now did you lean your lesson from this:
This should be your motto, your Sig, your blast:
Keep it in your pants so she want have to kill your baby.
Does sex still sound like the way to go for love:
Show how much you love me...
If you love me you will have sex with me...
I will break up with you if you do not have sex with me...
if you do not have sex with me i will find someone who will...
Did she love you enough to keep the baby...no! Kind of has a different meaning huh.
Chalk this one up to lesson learned...Keep it in your pants so the next woman does not get pregnant when she is not ready.
2007-01-30 12:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 5⤊ 4⤋
You are awsome, i'm with you 100%. Abortion is wrong, it isnt birthcontrol and it is not the answer to these womens problems. Those innocent babies deserve every chance to be born, loved, grow up, have a fmaily and do all the things GOD intended them to do. I never have and never will support abortion, its sick, cruel, and a sin. Abortion is murder, pain inflicted on an innocent baby. The silent scream, google it people and look at what aabortion really does.
2007-01-30 11:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by BaBy KiSsEs!! 3 · 6⤊ 6⤋