How do i tell my mom???!!?

Question

I'm 15 years old and i need help telling my mon that i'm sexually active any advice? Oh ya my Boyfriend is 19

Answer 1

Dont tell her your boyfriends nineteen. She'll probably send him 2 jail. Just sit her down and tell her. Dont have an attitude...jus be as peasant as possible and tell her...she'll be mad you had sex but happy you told her the truth

Answer 2

u need to stop being sexually active at all especially at 15 with a 19 year old and yea tell your mom and let her know what her darling daughter has been doing while her mothers not around

Answer 3

As much as you don't want to face it, it's a good idea for you to tell her; It will make you look more responsible than if she were to find out herself.

I'm lucky, my mom pretty much figured it out on her own and told me "well, you're going to do it anyway. Maybe we should get you on birth control pills." Then she told me about the dangers of STD's and possibilities of pregnancy.

Just try to have an open conversation with her. She may overreact, but point out that you are being safe and responsible about it by only having one partner and using protection (which I hope you are)

Answer 4

First of all does your boyfriend know that is illegal in most states second of all yes you should tell your mom you should have talked to her first no matter what your mom is always gonna know best when it comes to that stuff I would definitly tell her because you do not want to have a baby at 15 or aids. Herpes are pretty gross to

Answer 5

Well.....this is a hard one. Just be straight forward with her. The best way I could think of is telling her that you need help because you want to take care of yourself. Shes going to be mad for a while. But at least she'll see that youre trying to be responsible and take care of yourself. As for the boyfriend, thats a different story!

Answer 6

That's statutory rape. If your mom chooses to do so she can file charges on him without your consent. Your still a child. He's an adult. You need to tell your mom your having sex with an adult. He deserves to be in jail. And you need to also date someone your age. Not some guy 4 years older than you.

Answer 7

it seems like you wan't to be able to comunnicate with your mom. I appreciate it as i'm a parent. Well if you feel like you want to tell her you need to. Hope this helps:
How to talk to your parents about sex



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Talking the Talk: Kids and adults can learn to talk things out!

Ask these questions or others you have on your mind to get your conversation started.

Check off the approach that best describes your style.

The "To-The-Point" approach

"Can we talk? I have a question about something we learned in sex ed class."

"I think I am not developing as fast as my friends. Is something wrong with me?"

The "Round-About" approach

"Did you see that billboard about being a virgin? Should that stuff be in public where little kids can see it?"

"This talk show had some teens on who had babies and the girls were only 13 years old. Do you think teens can be good parents?"

The "Wonder If" approach

"I wonder if you think it is a good idea to learn about sex in school. Do you?"

"I wonder if kids will like me better if I do things they do even if I am not ready. What did you do when your friends did something you did not want to do?"

The "I've Heard That" approach

"I heard that lots of kids have had sex by high school. Is that just a rumor?"

"I've heard if you say no to sex, the person you like will break up with you. How do you say no to someone and not hurt their feelings?"

Still think talking to your parents will be too tough? Try these tips from kids your age!

Try writing your questions down and give your parents the note.
Read the question you wrote on paper out loud. That way you can hide your face behind the paper!
Talk to an empty chair, or your pet first or talk into the mirror to practice.
Make sure your little brother or sister is out of the house. You can't talk about serious stuff when someone else is listening.
Bring up the subject of sex when you and your mom or dad are watching a show where someone is wearing tight clothes or making out. Or if there is a soap opera on you'll have lots of opportunities then!
Leave this brochure lying around. Your mom or dad just might get the hint!
"I was nervous to talk to my mom at first. You know, this stuff can be embarrassing. I just blurted out "Can we talk?" She said "Yes" right away. It was easier than I thought. Now my mom asks "Is there anything YOU want to talk about?" It's nice to know I CAN get my questions answered."

News Flash!

Think you can only talk to your friends about tough topics like sex?

Think again!

Try talking to your parents to get the straight scoop. Studies show that kids who get their questions answered by adults in their life have less chance of getting pregnant or getting someone pregnant as teens.

Your parents may have things to say to you about sex, values and morals and may not know how to start the subject.

Someone has to make the first move. Why not you?

Answer 8

YOUR BOYFRIEND IS TOO OLD FOR YOU.

That's creepy. If you are going to become sexually active, sit your mom down and tell her straight out and DON'T HAVE SEX WITH ANYONE 18 OR OVER. They need to be with girls their own age.

Answer 9

Just be honest with her. But know, that is she loves you she in NOT going to be okay with you having a 19 yr. old boyfriend. he's too old for you and i know it doesn't feel like it now but he's taking advantage of you. If he cared about you he would wait until you were older to get involved with you. and yes, it is statutory rape. trust me, years from now you'll realize how wrong this is.

Answer 10

I'm feeling like there is more, why the huge need to tell your mom your sexually active? Are you pregnant? I wasn't sexaully active till I was 18 But I didn't want to run to my mom to tell her. I had friends who had sex even younger then that and they didn't want to tell their poarents either. I mean it's good to talk to your mom, it just seems odd you what to tell her, "just because"