More problems, more possible solutions. But what are these "solutions?"?

Question

I got too many problems. Too much, that they can't be counted.

Everywhere I go, I ruin everything. I ruin conversations, kill class, become a Hell magnet.

But there's more.

In the past two years, I had to deal with a cheating dad, a divorce, extreme expectations from my mom on my grades, and, more importantly, bullying.

Yes, ever since fourth grade, I have been bullied. On my appearance, on my weight, and on my social status, which is still, nerd.

I think God is punishing me for an unknown reason, yet He helps the others who were mean to me.

He is raining down gloom and depression in my soul; He creates people to make fun of me, and to make me feel bad.

I cannot believe why. What is going on? What is (are) my solution(s)?

I also must deal with an annoying sister (younger by six years) who doesn't care how I feel.

Answer 1

Son....if you could hear your Heavenly Father, he would be saying.."I love you, I will never leave or forsake you"....sorry there are those that have caused you to suffer...but your Heavenly Father hurts along with you...He knows and has seen your pain. Just so you know, he walks beside you. God has no reason to punish you. This time is not going to be forever in your life....just pursue a relationship with Christ....get involved in a youth group to help support you through this difficult period in your life....I will pray for you. Be Blessed.

Answer 2

You may be depressed so much because of what has happened but you can't change what has happened. You're a smart kid - go to the library and find some inspirational books for teens. Read one and then another. This is absolutely a short-term solution. But one reason inspirational and self-help books sell so well is that people really need them. And there are a lot of people who really need them.
Books are a short-term substitute for real help from a counselor or basically, just losing weight and suddenly looking more attractive to girls. You can run, on your own time, at your own pace. You could belong to the Y but running in your neighborhood is lots cheaper. Don't waste your mom's money on a gym membership you are not going to use.
My own story: I only got noticed at high school when I was a kid when I suddenly got better dressed with the purchase of something nice. I wore the outfit a lot and it was like I was different person in it. Pretty pathetic that no one cared much until I dressed up. This was years ago. But I'll bet the underlying lesson still applies - that success is 95% image and 5% talent. That's not only in high school!

Answer 3

Hi ZZ!

Cheer up! First of all, see life objectively. Don't blame God for what had happened. Everything happens for a reason ok. Don't see think God have forsaken you. He's just testing your faith.

You are an intelligent person. Those bullies are just envious of you. Who cares about appearances and weight issues?! You don't need their opinions about it. Just don't mind them ok. Be at peace with yourself.

about your mom, well, every parent expects good grades from their children. She just wants you to do good in school.Don't feel pressured about it. Take it as a challenge! Rise above the challenge as they say.

I can be your friend if you want :)

Cheer up!!

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Answer 4

Hang in there. Unfortunately not all kids are nice. When see another kid who is nice and pleasant, they can seem to view those characteristics as a weakness and bully or insult the individual.

If you are a relatively good student, one who is self-disciplined and sincere about doing your best...keep doing things that way.
You did not mention your age, but with excellent grades and test scores you will make yourself eligible for scholarships.

Then, even if just on the inside, you will have the last laugh at the kids who picked on you because they most likely will be left behind as you head off to a college of interest (possibly in another town) and you move on with the formation of your life to come as an adult. There are kids who have overcome great obstacles in their lives because of the ability to remain focused on the important things in life.

Probably, after you are 21-23-25 years old, the friends you keep in touch with will not be the ones you knew in you rlocal schools, you will have a bond with your friends from college that will last a lifetime.

When you go to your 10 year highschool reunion with your college degree and job you will be filled with pride and self-confidence of your own achievements. Some of them will never grow-up and not respect your accomplishments in life.

Just keep doing your best...not for fellow classmates, but for you.
You will leave the other less-focused students in your dust as you head off into the world on your journey of success. And you will smile for making it.

Good luck.

Answer 5

You're obviously a teenager and this happens. I remember feeling like i just wanted to die and that nobody loved me..every single day. It may seem like everything is going downhill but it's not. Be more optimistic...think more about the good things in your life rather than the bad. It helps!

Answer 6

It seems you are quite intelligent. So keep thinking and you'll get the answers soon.

Answer 7

honey god aint punishing you...hes testing you...you gotta be strong...not be a sissy pussy b*tch and ask people your dunno for advice...plus ive gone threw alot to and still am ...half my family are drug addicts my mothers been in jail or rehab on n off sense i was like 6 my dads been leaving me n my lil brother alone to go out drinking i think ever sense we wer born.... now my moms out and my little brothers a snot faced spoiled brat who hates averything and everyone so yea...keep strong..your day will come


so solution? yourself...be proud of yourself...dont listen....see no evil hear no evil blah blah blah

Answer 8

You are sooooooooooooo over dramatic.

Answer 9

i am so sorry, that sucks. . well there are low points in everyone's life, and hopefully soon, it will get better!